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They've 3D mapped the nerves of the clitoris and our sex organ is even more extraordinary.
One of the women described the experience as a giant “trust fall”.
Once full arousal is reached, I allow myself to get close to coming, but pull back and breathe deep, dropping back down.
My cognitive dissonance kicks in when I consider the glaring omission of human sexuality in political discussions.
The number one sex toy is some kind of additional lubrication.
It's been said that life begins at 40 and since 60 is the new 40; I'd say you have some good times ahead of you.
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It slows down our brain waves so we can more readily access our bodily senses.
I encourage genital massage along with masturbation for both women and men.
At best this form of vaginal stimulation would be what I call "indirect clitoral stimulation.
Your vaginal discharge/infection is not the result of you current or past masturbation.
A person can be straight and have gay fantasies or the other way around.
Our arousal patterns change as we mature. If not, it's a sign we are stuck in a rut and it's time for a change.
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The Art of Getting Apart

Some of us have to face the truth that we are not cut out to be life-partners with anyone but ourselves and our creative projects.

Can I See My Hymen In a Mirror?

While I'm glad you are curious and interested in your lovely sex organ, rest assured that you no longer have a hymen after years of sexual intercourse.

Facing Hysterectomy & Don't Want Lose Orgasm

Dear Dr. Betty,

I believe that a high percentage of my orgasmic pleasure lies in my uterine contractions, although I find it difficult to separate all that I feel during orgasm into the reaction of my various internal organs.

Is Licking Ass Dangerous?

Dear Dr. Betty,

I love your advice in Bust, and felt like you were the safest and most reliable person to ask this question (and was afraid what I would get if I "googled this!). I've been with my boyfriend for 4 months and it has been the most loving and sexual relationship I've ever had. The last time we had sex, he was giving me oral and started to lick my anus. It felt amazing and I had a great orgasm.

My Foreskin is Too Tight

Dear Dr. Betty, My foreskin is too tight. With some lubrication it can be pulled back but on erection it pains a lot. I tried to stretch it in the above mentioned way, but it has not helped. Is circumcision necessary or can some topical cream etc. help me out? Dear D, This is not all that uncommon and what is usually recommended is gradually stretching it with gentle manipulation like you described. I have no idea how old you are or how long you have tried stretching your foreskin. Using some topical desensitizing cream for a while might make sense.

Is My Vaginal Canal Too Short for Sex?

Hi Betty,

Whenever I have sex and my partner thrusts, I experience pain as though he has reached the end of my vaginal canal and is maybe hitting my cervix. I'd rather sex not be inhibited by asking him to just do shallow thrusts. Do you have any idea why I am experiencing this pain? It really ruins the fun of the session for me.

Dear TW,