Hi Betty,

I recently read your book Sex for One, borrowed from a friend who was making a documentary about female masturbation. In any case, I am a 21 year-old student who just started exploring my body very recently (on my own that is) and I have come across many interesting things.

For one, it seems that I am an ejaculator. At first, like every other woman, I figured I had peed on myself. But I smelled and checked and made sure it wasn't pee. So the only logical conclusion was ejaculation (and a rather large amount of it too).

Dear Dr. Betty,

I love your website. I consider myself reasonably well informed but I've learned quite a lot from it. I'd appreciate your comments on a problem I have. When my husband stimulates my 'G' spot during his manual manipulation it feels wonderful. The problem is afterward I have frequent, urgent and often false needs to urinate. These sudden feelings of needing to take a pee sometimes go on for several days.

Dear Dr. Betty,

I found an article in Discovery Health that referred to the g-spot as part of the clit. Since then I have found two more sources that support this claim; "I *heart* Female Orgasm" by Dorian Solot and Marshall Miller, and "She Comes First" by Ian Kerner. I'm so frustrated, because I'd like to believe these are reputable sources! Is this misinformation leftover from when the g-spot became popular, a case of overzealous clit-pride, or is there some truth to it?

R

Dear R,

Dear Dr. Betty,

I’m from Uruguay (a little country in south america). In my country it isn’t that easy to find your kind of help. My story is sad, by fortunately is having a happy ending. I’m 33 years old and I’ve lost my virginity when I was 17 because I was raped. Sadly, I was raced in a VERY catholic family and masturbation was out of the equation.

Dear Betty,

Most of the time when I'm being stimulated by something I feel myself getting wet and excited in my vulva area. But sometimes I feel stimulation very deep inside me, very far away from my external clitoris.

Having watched you draw the entire clitoris, I'm wondering just where it is that I'm feeling this powerful stimulation. Some where on the pelvic floor?

Dear T,

Hey Dr. Betty!

I have an uncooperative vagina. My clitoris and I get along really really well but my vagina and I? Not so much. For much of my teens I had vaginismus that prevented me from wanting any sort of penetration during masturbation sessions. There was no partner-sex. Now that I'm in my early twenties I have wanted to expand my routine a little and include penetration. So far most of my issues with vaginismus have disappeared, but I now have next to no sensation in my vagina.