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Once full arousal is reached, I allow myself to get close to coming, but pull back and breathe deep, dropping back down.
My cognitive dissonance kicks in when I consider the glaring omission of human sexuality in political discussions.
The number one sex toy is some kind of additional lubrication.
It's been said that life begins at 40 and since 60 is the new 40; I'd say you have some good times ahead of you.
Your fantasy is a way to rehearse those moments of childhood humiliation, except by ending with an orgasm, you're reclaiming your power from those nasty authority figures.
Next time you’re fucking, YOU stimulate your clitoris at the same time with however you do it when you masturbate.
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How about the diaphragm that has fallen out fashion?
As we age, gravity takes a toll and things do shrink or appear to be smaller.
I just want to be honest but also don't want to scare people off.
Can you curve your penis from your masturbation technique?

As far as I know, I have never had a G-spot orgasm nor have I ever ejaculated. However, I do know many of my orgasms have been deep, powerful and satisfying. I've also enjoyed those little ten minute maintenance orgasms that release tension. 

I am still very much attracted to women, I only masturbate to female porn, and I would really like to have another female encounter.
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Vanessa Del Rio: 50 Years of Slightly Slutty Behavior

Once I turned the first few pages, I couldn't stop. Vanessa Del Rio: 50 Years of Slightly Slutty Behavior is an amazing work of art that was produced by Taschen, the German publishing company that does the best art books in the world.

Am I the Only Woman Who Has Rape Fantasies?

Dear Dr. Betty,

I know it may not be normal...I feel like a pervert sometimes, but sometimes I fantasize about being raped. Is that wrong? I imagine that a handsome guy just grabs me and throws me on the ground/ a bed and holds me down, attacking me from behind, and I beg him to stop but he doesn't...Am I wrong for having those thoughts? Is that perverted?

My Girlfriend's Vagina is Too Big For My Penis

Dear Dr. Betty,

I have a girl friend for 5 years.  I'm the first man she totally had sex with but from the first day we had sex, after a couple of penetrations, i felt it's too big for me.  My penis is fine (kind of average,, 6 inches) as i had been through different sex experiences with other girls and it was fine and some times very tight but after i got into my relationship (I never cheated on her by the way).

Is It Safe to Use the Hitachi While Pregnant?

Dear Dr. Betty,

I have a hitachi wand vibrator and am 7 months pregnant. i still enjoy using it on occasion but part of me is worried that the intense vibrations are not safe for baby. any reassurance?

Dear K,

There have been no tests or any research done on the use of an electric vibrator during pregnancy. But a friend of mine used her Hitachi throughout her pregnancy and also during labor. It really helped with pain management. In my mind, a baby inside would love the vibes and the orgasm would be fun to ride like waves that rock Baby to and fro.

I Can Ejaculate Easily with Boyfriend But I Can't Orgasm

Dear Betty,

I am 21 and have never been able to reach climax alone or with a partner. I can ejaculate quite easily though, but i worry that its caused from some kind of pressure build up that triggers my bladder as opposed to arousal, as when it happens I don't feel any closer to orgasm and instead just fear it actually is urine. Can this happen? Is it actually ejaculating that with lead up to orgasm?

I Have Extra Skin On My Perineum

Dear Dr. Betty,

I've seen porn. I've seen naked woman, etc. Every woman's pussy and anus is different and that is a definite fact. But...I have a very unusual perineum.