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My cognitive dissonance kicks in when I consider the glaring omission of human sexuality in political discussions.
The number one sex toy is some kind of additional lubrication.
It's been said that life begins at 40 and since 60 is the new 40; I'd say you have some good times ahead of you.
Your fantasy is a way to rehearse those moments of childhood humiliation, except by ending with an orgasm, you're reclaiming your power from those nasty authority figures.
Next time you’re fucking, YOU stimulate your clitoris at the same time with however you do it when you masturbate.

She was so soft spoken on the phone that I had to ask her to speak up several times. Badu told me she was an African woman from Kenya who had been circumcised. Two years ago, she began looking for information to understand what had been done to her as a ten year-old child. She came across my name online and made the call.

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Discovering the beauty of my vulva dramatically changed my life, especially when it came to being sexually intimate with a partner.
One of the most remarkable moments was when I realized that within the 7 women in the group, we had every vulva style I’d ever named.
I recently witnessed a young woman have an incredibly easy abortion by taking several pills.
Too many girls are putting a vibrator on their clitoris expecting to "get off" as quickly as a boyfriend who ejaculates within a few minutes while viewing porn.
Why can't you enjoy your orgasm and when he wants to come either one of you do manual sex or you could finish him off with oral sex.
Your fantasy is a way to rehearse those moments of childhood humiliation, except by ending with an orgasm, you're reclaiming your power from those nasty authority figures.
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My Girlfriend's Vagina is Too Big For My Penis

Dear Dr. Betty,

I have a girl friend for 5 years.  I'm the first man she totally had sex with but from the first day we had sex, after a couple of penetrations, i felt it's too big for me.  My penis is fine (kind of average,, 6 inches) as i had been through different sex experiences with other girls and it was fine and some times very tight but after i got into my relationship (I never cheated on her by the way).

Tired of Rubbing My Clit on Countertop Corners to Orgasm

Dearest Betty,

First of all thank you (and Carlin) for making it your business to educate the rest of us! I find your website a resourceful, inspirational, intelligent place to come back to over and over again. I have learned soooo much from it!

I'm Losing Friends Because of My Sexual Choices

Dear Dr. Betty,

I have fulfilled many of my sexual curiosities and/or fantasies. The one thing I can't seem to get over is how you got past the fact that people you knew would judge your career choice about sex and that they would see you naked. I have lost many friends by various sexual things I've done...like being naked in front of my mom, showing a picture of my penis, letting a friend give me a blowjob and then telling his wife I seduced him (lie), telling people I tied bottles to my foreskin and showed them, etc.

Dear S,

Can't Upgrade My Tension Orgasms

I'm 17 and I've been masturbating since a very young age. When I first started I would cross my legs tightly, and sort of rock back and forth. Sometimes I could have an orgasm in less than two minutes. The problem is, my boyfriend and I are getting serious, but I feel like sex won't be pleasurable for me, considering that my legs must be uncrossed in order to have sex.

Vanessa Del Rio: 50 Years of Slightly Slutty Behavior

Once I turned the first few pages, I couldn't stop. Vanessa Del Rio: 50 Years of Slightly Slutty Behavior is an amazing work of art that was produced by Taschen, the German publishing company that does the best art books in the world.

Am I the Only Woman Who Has Rape Fantasies?

Dear Dr. Betty,

I know it may not be normal...I feel like a pervert sometimes, but sometimes I fantasize about being raped. Is that wrong? I imagine that a handsome guy just grabs me and throws me on the ground/ a bed and holds me down, attacking me from behind, and I beg him to stop but he doesn't...Am I wrong for having those thoughts? Is that perverted?

Lost Erection When We Moved In Together...HELP

Hello Dr. Betty,

I'm a 30 year old man, and have been with my girlfriend for 9 months now. From the very beginning, and up until very recently, we have had the most amazing, uninhibited and intense sex together. There has been nothing wrong, no problems, and we both concur that what's between us (in everything, and certainly in bed) is something absolutely amazing. And then we moved in together.