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Hi Betty,

My question is about the vaccine for cervical cancer. I am quite skeptical of modern medicine and blindly following the doctor's orders, which I believe you are too, and I seem to have a real personal problem with accepting injections (stemming from a childhood drama). Besides my complete fear of needles, I generally do not believe the attitude we take towards vaccines such as the cervical cancer one is right.

Dear Dr. Betty,

Lately I experience cramps when I reach orgasm which pretty much takes the fun out of my orgasms. The cramps do not appear every time I masturbate but they are really distracting and the satisfaction does not set in as the sensation is not the same. The cramps feel like the ones I have while menstruating (which isn't much fun either) although I am not.

I wonder if you ever heard of any similar cases and have some advice for me.

Thank you so much for everything.

M

Dear M,

Dr. Betty,

I've been dating my boyfriend for 3 months now and most of the time things are going great... except in the bedroom. I have a very healthy sexual appetite and I enjoy everything that sex has to offer but my boyfriend does not seem to see sex in the same way. Just for a background my boyfriend is young (19) and I am the older woman (25). So I have a lot more experience and I know exactly what makes me excited and I can tell he needs some teaching.

Dear Dr. Betty,

I have a condition called Hidradenitis suppurativa and it causes bumps on my groin area that then turn into a sort of keloid thing. I'm a 20 yr old female and i would like to lose my virginity but the fear of explaining this to a 20yr old boy is sooo scary.

I don't have a boyfriend or anyone in particular that id like to lose my virginity to but how do i even begin to approach this with a person? id really like to get oral sex but i fear they'll think its because I'm dirty.

Hi Dr. Betty!

I am bisexual, and I came to terms with this about two years ago. I have been with my boyfriend now for five years. When I told him I was bisexual he told me he already knew (HAHA). We discussed it and he's been very supportive and accommodating. We've had two threesomes with friends of mine since then, and we are looking for something a little more permanent. The problem is, I don't know how to find these magical women who are not disgusted by the notion of being in a triad relationship.

Hi Betty.

I am 17 years old and my boyfriend is 22. I have only ever had orgasms from the clitoris and never from the g-spot. I really want to be able to have one and know what it feels like. My boyfriend says he has been able to give them to all his other sexual partners but just not me. Is there something wrong?

Thank you

Dear J,

Hi Dr. Betty,

A couple years ago I was diagnosed with Genital Herpes. My Girlfriend is informed about this, and we are very open about it. In an attempt to not spread this to her, She does not perform Oral sex on me. The thing is, that she told me she has a hard time getting close to me sexually because of this, She wants to and I want her to but we do not want to spread it.

Hi Dr. Betty!

I am 22, and I have had an orgasm a few times before (thank you magic wand), but only when I let go and not think about whether I am having an orgasm. Last week I started using the magic wand by spreading my legs with my feet on the floor and I had what really felt like an orgasm, but I am confused – so many women talk about their clitoris being super super sensitive after. Mine isn’t really sensitive, after the orgasm (or what feels like it), the magic wand is still going and technically it feels good but I just want to stop for a moment. Is this unusual?

Hi Betty:

Dear Betty,

Firstly, I love and celebrate what you do to free and empower women!