As far as I know, I have never had a G-spot orgasm nor have I ever ejaculated. However, I do know many of my orgasms have been deep, powerful and satisfying. I've also enjoyed those little ten minute maintenance orgasms that release tension.
How Can I Introduce Afterplay (He Keeps Pleasuring Me After He's Climaxed)?
Hi Ladies,
LOVE LOVE LOVE your vids, just watched the latest one about the man losing his erection waiting for his wife to have her orgasm. This brought to mind my question: how do I introduce after play for him to continue with pleasuring me after he is finished, there has only been one man I've ever known willing to "keep going" after he had climaxed. Every other man I've been with (I'm not inexperienced) has considered the sex act to be OVER when they cum. How do we change this?
Do Most Women Need Clitoral & Vaginal Stimulation to Orgasm?
Dear Dr. Betty,
My problem is something on which I've done a lot of internet research, and I've yet to find a satisfying answer to my problem. I began attempting masturbation (with my fingers) at the age of 13, and had no orgasms. It felt nice, but I never climaxed. Manipulation of the clitoris was not satisfying to completion, nor was vaginal fingering. When I was 18, I bought a vibrator, but it did not make me come, the incessant buzzing only made me numb. Reluctant to lose my virginity to a fake penis, I waited until I was 23, got fed up, and bought a dong.
If I Enjoy Anal Play, Does That Make Me Gay?
Dear Dr. Betty,
Is It a Vaginal Infection Or Is It All In My Mind?
Dear Dr. Betty,
I have a question about vaginal infection and wish to get your expert answer. Thank You.
Doctor, I suspect myself having vaginal infection since January 2009... I visited doctor and she gave me a type of cream which called candid cream and some fluconazole 200mg tablet, the doctor also advised me to wash my genital area with salt water. However, It seem din recover after applied the cream and have the medicine...
Since Using Vibrator, Can't Orgasm During Oral/Manual Sex
Dear Betty and Carlin,
First, thank you so much for you work! You helped me finally accept myself as a sexual being. You're a great example of how beautiful women are when they're strong and sexually empowered. When I grow up, I want to be just like you two! ;-)
When Boyfriend Goes Down on Me, It Tickles
Dear Dr. Betty,
My boyfriend has been performing oral sex on me for quite some time. It feels great every time he does it however, it seems that right before I am about to orgasm whatever he does just tickles. We have been working on it but can't figure out a way to stop the intense tickling. I have never orgasmed before so could I actually be coming and not knowing it?
Thanks for your help,
A
Dear A,
Hate My Chubby Pubic Mound
Dear Betty,
I'm 22 years old. I'm a nurse and have never been heavy a day in my life. I'm 6 feet and 1 inches tall and weigh 136 pounds.
But I think my Vagina is abnormal. I have a very chubby pubic mound meaning lots of extra flesh" My boyfriend calls it my bumper'LOL I also have very thick lips that completely cover my clit. I've had multiple sexual partners and all of them had never seen a vagina like mine. Is this normal, or is there something wrong????
Please let me know.
~K
Dear K,
I Don't Want to Have to Teach a Man How to Stimulate My Clit
Dear Dr. Betty,
I asked you a question a few days ago about how guys hate the fact I'm a virgin. Thank you so much for answering and I hope you don't mind me sending you another question.
I went out with a really nice guy over the weekend. In between all the fooling around, we cuddled and talked. We talked about our past dating experiences, sex, the fact I've never had it and how he is fine with that. I decided that since we were being open, I would quiz him on his sexual intelligence.
Got an Erection Watching Tranny Porn. Am I Gay?
Dear Dr. Betty,
Like most men, I resort to porn videos for entertainment. While watching an unusually attractive girl strip, I was shocked when it turned out her genitals were completely masculine. I mean, I only wish I had a set like hers!
The effect of this was to get me so sexually excited that I masturbated. Does this prove I am part gay?
RD
Dear R,
If I Fantasize About Women, Am I Gay?
Hey Betty!
I contacted you a short while ago and you gave me wonderful advice, so if it isn't any trouble, I have a couple more curious questions to ask you.
First of all one of the reasons why I love your site is because I feel very liberated from some of the worry that seems to come along with my sexual fantasies. But for some reason I still feel like I am weird or something. My sexual fantasies involve a lot of themes, during the day I am constantly fantasizing about sex. I am always thinking of my male best friend and I having sex or making out.