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I Can Trust in Bodysex
One of the women described the experience as a giant “trust fall”.
My Go to Trick for Orgasm
Once full arousal is reached, I allow myself to get close to coming, but pull back and breathe deep, dropping back down.
I Believe Sex is How People are Controlled Which Puts it at the Heart of Politics
My cognitive dissonance kicks in when I consider the glaring omission of human sexuality in political discussions.
How to Best Use a Vibrator
The number one sex toy is some kind of additional lubrication.
My Vagina is tight and dry...can I orgasm?
It's been said that life begins at 40 and since 60 is the new 40; I'd say you have some good times ahead of you.
How Can I Stop My Fantasies?
Your fantasy is a way to rehearse those moments of childhood humiliation, except by ending with an orgasm, you're reclaiming your power from those nasty authority figures.
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The Myth of the Vaginal Orgasm by Anne Koedt
After I read the article below by Anne Koedt in 1970, I was thrilled and made a cold call hoping to meet and discuss how we could collaborate.
Should I Get an IUD?
How about the diaphragm that has fallen out fashion?
Why Is My Penis Shrinking?
As we age, gravity takes a toll and things do shrink or appear to be smaller.
How Do You Tell Someone You've Been Treated for an STD?
I just want to be honest but also don't want to scare people off.
My Son Noticed an Arch In His Erection
Can you curve your penis from your masturbation technique?
The G-spot Revisited

As far as I know, I have never had a G-spot orgasm nor have I ever ejaculated. However, I do know many of my orgasms have been deep, powerful and satisfying. I've also enjoyed those little ten minute maintenance orgasms that release tension. 

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Masturbate by Rubbing Head of Penis - No Strokes - Is That Normal?

Dear Betty,

I have masturbated for many years. I am however still a virgin. When I masturbate, I use only my thumb index and middle finger and rub the head of my penis like i was rolling a spit wad. I have always done it this way and when i try to stroke it, it feels foriegn. Most people talk about stroking their cock. Is what I am doing abnormal?

C

Dear C,

Did I Damage My Clitoris with Electric Toothbrush?

Hi,

First I would like to say that I am so happy I discovered your site! I have learned so much and am becoming far more comfortable with myself. As for my question...When I was about 13 I got the idea to use my electric toothbrush to masturbate. It was amazing and I have used it since (I'm 20). Outside of laying under the shower faucet this is the only way I have ever had an orgasm. I'm very concerned that masturbating with the electric toothbrush may have damaged my clitoris and made me less sensitive there.

Is My Clitoris Too Small to Orgasm?

Dear Dr. Betty,

I've been married for 10 years, my husband has tried oral and manual stimulation, but I've never been able to orgasm. I have either a very small, or non-existant clitoral gland, so is there any hope? If there is nothing there to stimulate - how can I orgasm. The only good stimulation I've received is through fairly intense water jet power. Any suggestions are welcome.

Dear D,

Asked My Doctor About My Wife's Loss of Sexual Desire...He Gave Me Viagra

Dear Betty,

I'm sure that this is a common problem as people age but seeking help to sexual problems when you are older can be quite disconcerting it seems.

In recent years, my wonderful wife who is 64, has lost almost all interest in sex. Sexual intercourse for us is a once or twice annually event and I happen to know that she rarely masturbates now either. I'm 65 and in recent years have noticed a decline in my libido too and in particular a decline in the strength of my erections.

Is My Boyfriend Gay?

Dear Dr. Betty,

I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 5 years and we are very open to each other about sex and our fantasies. He told me that before we met he had sex with a transvestite. From what I understand it was a man in women's clothes, pre-op, and my boyfriend says that this guy looked so much like a women that he was ok with it. All that happened was he fucked the guy in the ass and left after he came.