As far as I know, I have never had a G-spot orgasm nor have I ever ejaculated. However, I do know many of my orgasms have been deep, powerful and satisfying. I've also enjoyed those little ten minute maintenance orgasms that release tension.
Why Do I Pull Away From Clitoral Stimulation?
Dear Betty,
How come i can give myself back to back orgasms while masturbating but yet i pull away from my partner when he tries pleasing me. It feels awesome but before i can orgasm i pull away or push myself away from him like it feels so good i cant handle it, can you help me?
Dear S,
When we pull away from some form of clitoral stimulation it can mean
1. You have already had a small orgasm and the clitoris needs to calm down for a few moments before continuing.
Self Conscious About How Long It Takes Me to Orgasm
Hi Betty,
I've recently started exploring your site and I want to thank you for creating such an open community. I wasn't raised to talk or even think about sex (not that my parents were strict or very religious--it just wasn't something anyone in my family ever discussed, and my parents are not openly affectionate with each other), and so I feel like I'm a little behind in terms of fully accepting myself as a sexual person who enjoys intimacy. But I'm working on it, I really am, and your site is helping me.
My Boyfriend Masturbates But Rarely Wants Sex With Me
Hi Betty,
First of all, thank you so much for your website. Even with as liberal of a mother as I had to raise me, the down and out details of sex, and overall how-to's are hard to find.
Loss of Interest in Sex After Having Three Children
Dear Dr. Betty,
Ever since my first child was born I lost the interest in sex. I have always loved sex and my husband and I always had amazing sex before I had my daughter but now I just can't get into it. I used to love for him to suck my nipples now I can't stand it and when ever I cum I lose all interest in it. Please help! My daughter is already 3 and I have a 2 year old and a 2 month old, so we still have sex. But it's not the same.. it's ruining my marriage..
Dear M,
Should I Tell My Lovers That I Might Ejaculate?
Hi Dr. Betty,
Is It Normal To Have Abdominal Pain After Sex & Bleed After Fingering?
Dear Dr. Betty,
Sometimes after my boyfriend fingers me....hard and fast, of course, I bleed a bit...it doesn't gush out! But it's not just a little amount, either. Also, it's at random times (not always before or after my cycle). This doesn't happen every time, though (mind that sometimes it doesn't happen even if we are being rough). Also, I have abdominal pains; some occur before and some occur after intercourse.
My Clitoris was Removed. Sex is Painful.
Hello Doctor Betty,
My name is H. and I live in the United States. I am of an African descent and as a young child, I was robbed of my sexual pleasures. My clitoris was cut off in the name of tradition and now that I'm older, I'm having problems with my sexuality. I have severe pains during intercourse and a very painful menstural cycle. I am very uncomfortable having sex because I don't want my boyfriend to find out. This is really interfering with my life and I was wondering whether you could help me, please. Thank you.
Why Aren't My Nipples Sensitive During Sex?
Hi Betty,
After being with my husband for a few years, and a few other men prior, I have noticed that my breasts are not sensitive during sex. My nipples are the same way. The only time I have feeling, and usually tenderness, is "that" time. I've done some research online and have found nothing. I might not have dug deep enough, but I'm curious as to why my nipples are no fun for me.
Can a Man Orgasm Without Ejaculating?
Dear Dr. Betty,
I have been hearing it is possible for men to have an orgasm without ejaculating. Is that possible? I can last for 30-40 min but then have a hard time (lol) getting back up again after ejaculating. I have heard you can control your pc and stop yourself from EJ. I feel I have a strong PC but when it starts to build I can't stop.
Dear M,