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Mapping the Nerves of the Clitoris
They've 3D mapped the nerves of the clitoris and our sex organ is even more extraordinary.
I Can Trust in Bodysex
One of the women described the experience as a giant “trust fall”.
My Go to Trick for Orgasm
Once full arousal is reached, I allow myself to get close to coming, but pull back and breathe deep, dropping back down.
I Believe Sex is How People are Controlled Which Puts it at the Heart of Politics
My cognitive dissonance kicks in when I consider the glaring omission of human sexuality in political discussions.
How to Best Use a Vibrator
The number one sex toy is some kind of additional lubrication.
My Vagina is tight and dry...can I orgasm?
It's been said that life begins at 40 and since 60 is the new 40; I'd say you have some good times ahead of you.
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Can Marijuana Increase Libido?
It slows down our brain waves so we can more readily access our bodily senses.
Is There Any Way to Make Your Penis Bigger?
I encourage genital massage along with masturbation for both women and men.
Is the G-spot Part of the Clitoris?
At best this form of vaginal stimulation would be what I call "indirect clitoral stimulation.
Can Masturbation Make Me Infertile?
Your vaginal discharge/infection is not the result of you current or past masturbation.
Women Don't Get Me Hard...Am I Gay?
A person can be straight and have gay fantasies or the other way around.
Since Anti-depresssants Orgasms Aren't the Same
Our arousal patterns change as we mature. If not, it's a sign we are stuck in a rut and it's time for a change.
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Marijuana & Sex: Confessions of a Periodic Pot Head

Thousands of years before the time of Christ, the cannabis hemp plant was Earth's largest agricultural crop that produced the majority of fiber, fabric, lighting oil, paper, incense and medicines. Hemp was also the primary source of essential food, oil and protein for humans and animals.

Masturbation Saved Our Marriage

I am now in my early '70s. I now masturbate beside her in bed, in the shower, or at the computer with my large XXX collection.

Why Don't I Enjoy Clitoral Stimulation?

First off, THANK you for living and breathing! This site has helped me realize that I am not alone in wanting to explore and own my sexuality as a woman!

The first and most important question I have is as follows:

I can only cum by stimulating the areas around my clitoris. I've tried stimulating it before, but any kind of pressure feels tender and hurts. Likewise, I find that after I cum (when using a vibrator) I have to quickly remove it or it hurts almost immediately. What is going on?!

Dear L,

Should I Become an Escort?

Dear Betty and Carlin,

I am hoping that you can give me some advice in regards to entering into sex work. I have the opportunity to take up work as an escort in October, but am not sure whether or not to do it. I'm a student that could really use the cash but have never had sex with someone I am not in a relationship with and don't know how I would feel in the moment when it's time to get laid/paid.

I Can Only Orgasm Squeezing My Legs Together

Hi, Betty.

I would first like to say that I LOVE your website. I'm 16 and have always had a lot of sexual curiosity and I love when people, like yourself can speak freely about a topic that has, unfortunately been so down played and criticized by our society. Thank you and Carlin for all you do.

Can You Get a UTI Using a Dildo?

Hi Dr Betty!,

Yet another question. Can one contract a UTI by using a dildo for both vaginal and clit stimulation? After doing that (no anal play involved), I got a wicked one that went into my kidney and I'm a little apprehensive about getting off again using that method. (Peeing fire is definitely not fun!)

I know you are not an MD, but thought your priceless experience might be able to shed a little light on things.

M

Dear M,