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Mapping the Nerves of the Clitoris
They've 3D mapped the nerves of the clitoris and our sex organ is even more extraordinary.
I Can Trust in Bodysex
One of the women described the experience as a giant “trust fall”.
My Go to Trick for Orgasm
Once full arousal is reached, I allow myself to get close to coming, but pull back and breathe deep, dropping back down.
I Believe Sex is How People are Controlled Which Puts it at the Heart of Politics
My cognitive dissonance kicks in when I consider the glaring omission of human sexuality in political discussions.
How to Best Use a Vibrator
The number one sex toy is some kind of additional lubrication.
My Vagina is tight and dry...can I orgasm?
It's been said that life begins at 40 and since 60 is the new 40; I'd say you have some good times ahead of you.
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Can Marijuana Increase Libido?
It slows down our brain waves so we can more readily access our bodily senses.
Is There Any Way to Make Your Penis Bigger?
I encourage genital massage along with masturbation for both women and men.
Is the G-spot Part of the Clitoris?
At best this form of vaginal stimulation would be what I call "indirect clitoral stimulation.
Can Masturbation Make Me Infertile?
Your vaginal discharge/infection is not the result of you current or past masturbation.
Women Don't Get Me Hard...Am I Gay?
A person can be straight and have gay fantasies or the other way around.
Since Anti-depresssants Orgasms Aren't the Same
Our arousal patterns change as we mature. If not, it's a sign we are stuck in a rut and it's time for a change.
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Did I Damage My Clitoris with Electric Toothbrush?

Hi,

First I would like to say that I am so happy I discovered your site! I have learned so much and am becoming far more comfortable with myself. As for my question...When I was about 13 I got the idea to use my electric toothbrush to masturbate. It was amazing and I have used it since (I'm 20). Outside of laying under the shower faucet this is the only way I have ever had an orgasm. I'm very concerned that masturbating with the electric toothbrush may have damaged my clitoris and made me less sensitive there.

Masturbate by Rubbing Head of Penis - No Strokes - Is That Normal?

Dear Betty,

I have masturbated for many years. I am however still a virgin. When I masturbate, I use only my thumb index and middle finger and rub the head of my penis like i was rolling a spit wad. I have always done it this way and when i try to stroke it, it feels foriegn. Most people talk about stroking their cock. Is what I am doing abnormal?

C

Dear C,

Like to Engage in Manual Sex with Men - Am I Still Heterosexual?

Dr. Betty,

I'm a recent college grad and took up a job as helper on a long-haul truck to make ends meet until I can find better work in this economy. On my first trip, I was totally taken off guard by constant erections and I was very embarrassed. Loose, thin sweatpants are comfortable but awful at hiding an erection...especially since I didn't wear underwear.

How Can I Make My Boyfriend Want Sex More?

Dear Dr. Betty,

When my boyfriend and I first met we were always having sex and trying new things in the bedroom. Now it seems like he can go weeks without it and I still want sex every few days or so. Then I get frustrated because he doesn't want to have sex and we have an argument and he gets more stressed out about it. I don't want to ruin my relationship with him. Do you have any advice on what to do to make him want sex more? Or what I can do?

Dear E,

How Do I Take My Own Virginity?

Dr. Betty,

I'm 18 years old, and last night a friend and I tried to have sex. I have never had penetrative sex before, but he has been with several different girls, although never with a virgin before. I had also never been penetrated with anything at all, including my own fingers, so I wasn't
sure what to expect.

I Can't Find My Clitoris

Dear Betty

I could really use your expert help. I am 17 and have recently lost my virginity with my boyfriend and was disappointed to find out that sex wasn’t like on TV. In fact I don’t really get any pleasure from it at all and my boyfriend, who has been with other girls, seems really shocked that I don’t really enjoy it.