As far as I know, I have never had a G-spot orgasm nor have I ever ejaculated. However, I do know many of my orgasms have been deep, powerful and satisfying. I've also enjoyed those little ten minute maintenance orgasms that release tension.
Can Masturbating Too Much Kill Your Orgasms During Sex?
Hi Dr. Betty,
Does High Testosterone Make You Attracted to Women?
Hi Dr.Betty,
Did I Damage My Clitoris with Electric Toothbrush?
Hi,
First I would like to say that I am so happy I discovered your site! I have learned so much and am becoming far more comfortable with myself. As for my question...When I was about 13 I got the idea to use my electric toothbrush to masturbate. It was amazing and I have used it since (I'm 20). Outside of laying under the shower faucet this is the only way I have ever had an orgasm. I'm very concerned that masturbating with the electric toothbrush may have damaged my clitoris and made me less sensitive there.
Masturbate by Rubbing Head of Penis - No Strokes - Is That Normal?
Dear Betty,
I have masturbated for many years. I am however still a virgin. When I masturbate, I use only my thumb index and middle finger and rub the head of my penis like i was rolling a spit wad. I have always done it this way and when i try to stroke it, it feels foriegn. Most people talk about stroking their cock. Is what I am doing abnormal?
C
Dear C,
Menopause & Hormone Replacement: One Sexologist’s Personal Experience
Like to Engage in Manual Sex with Men - Am I Still Heterosexual?
Dr. Betty,
I'm a recent college grad and took up a job as helper on a long-haul truck to make ends meet until I can find better work in this economy. On my first trip, I was totally taken off guard by constant erections and I was very embarrassed. Loose, thin sweatpants are comfortable but awful at hiding an erection...especially since I didn't wear underwear.
How Can I Make My Boyfriend Want Sex More?
Dear Dr. Betty,
When my boyfriend and I first met we were always having sex and trying new things in the bedroom. Now it seems like he can go weeks without it and I still want sex every few days or so. Then I get frustrated because he doesn't want to have sex and we have an argument and he gets more stressed out about it. I don't want to ruin my relationship with him. Do you have any advice on what to do to make him want sex more? Or what I can do?
Dear E,
How Do I Take My Own Virginity?
Dr. Betty,
I'm 18 years old, and last night a friend and I tried to have sex. I have never had penetrative sex before, but he has been with several different girls, although never with a virgin before. I had also never been penetrated with anything at all, including my own fingers, so I wasn't
sure what to expect.
I Can't Find My Clitoris
Dear Betty
I could really use your expert help. I am 17 and have recently lost my virginity with my boyfriend and was disappointed to find out that sex wasn’t like on TV. In fact I don’t really get any pleasure from it at all and my boyfriend, who has been with other girls, seems really shocked that I don’t really enjoy it.
Can You be a Feminist & Still Like Porn?
Hi Betty & Carlin,
I feel in the last 3 weeks I have learnt more about myself and my body than in the last 10 years! Not only am I having better sex with my partner but I am also having better sex with myself! This has lead to feeling confident, happy and love for my body. It has also got me back in touch with feminism. I first considered myself a feminist after studying Sociology at college 4 years ago. However I never had anyone (other than my amazing feminist boyfriend) to talk to about it. But since discovering your site I joined the feminist network in my area.