As far as I know, I have never had a G-spot orgasm nor have I ever ejaculated. However, I do know many of my orgasms have been deep, powerful and satisfying. I've also enjoyed those little ten minute maintenance orgasms that release tension.
Loss of Interest in Sex After Having Three Children
Dear Dr. Betty,
Ever since my first child was born I lost the interest in sex. I have always loved sex and my husband and I always had amazing sex before I had my daughter but now I just can't get into it. I used to love for him to suck my nipples now I can't stand it and when ever I cum I lose all interest in it. Please help! My daughter is already 3 and I have a 2 year old and a 2 month old, so we still have sex. But it's not the same.. it's ruining my marriage..
Dear M,
My Boyfriend Masturbates But Rarely Wants Sex With Me
Hi Betty,
First of all, thank you so much for your website. Even with as liberal of a mother as I had to raise me, the down and out details of sex, and overall how-to's are hard to find.
Self Conscious About How Long It Takes Me to Orgasm
Hi Betty,
I've recently started exploring your site and I want to thank you for creating such an open community. I wasn't raised to talk or even think about sex (not that my parents were strict or very religious--it just wasn't something anyone in my family ever discussed, and my parents are not openly affectionate with each other), and so I feel like I'm a little behind in terms of fully accepting myself as a sexual person who enjoys intimacy. But I'm working on it, I really am, and your site is helping me.
Why Do I Pull Away From Clitoral Stimulation?
Dear Betty,
How come i can give myself back to back orgasms while masturbating but yet i pull away from my partner when he tries pleasing me. It feels awesome but before i can orgasm i pull away or push myself away from him like it feels so good i cant handle it, can you help me?
Dear S,
When we pull away from some form of clitoral stimulation it can mean
1. You have already had a small orgasm and the clitoris needs to calm down for a few moments before continuing.
Penetration Hurts & Tears Up My Vagina
Dear Dr. Betty,
I'm 20 years old and started having sex at 16. I'm not sure when exactly it started but I know it didn't happen the first time. Pretty much every single time I have or have tried to have penetrative sex it hurts and/or it tears just below the opening of my vagina. My boyfriend and I have tried more foreplay, lube, different positions etc. It only sometimes changes how bad the issue is not whether or not it happens.
How Can You Stimulate Your Own Nipples During Masturbation?
Betty,
I have a question regarding nipple stimulation during masturbation. First allow me to give you a quick background on my wife.
I Think I'm Afraid to Orgasm
Dear Betty,
My Boyfriend Claims He Doesn't Fantasize
Dear Betty,
Masturbation Saved Our Marriage
