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Mapping the Nerves of the Clitoris
They've 3D mapped the nerves of the clitoris and our sex organ is even more extraordinary.
I Can Trust in Bodysex
One of the women described the experience as a giant “trust fall”.
My Go to Trick for Orgasm
Once full arousal is reached, I allow myself to get close to coming, but pull back and breathe deep, dropping back down.
I Believe Sex is How People are Controlled Which Puts it at the Heart of Politics
My cognitive dissonance kicks in when I consider the glaring omission of human sexuality in political discussions.
How to Best Use a Vibrator
The number one sex toy is some kind of additional lubrication.
My Vagina is tight and dry...can I orgasm?
It's been said that life begins at 40 and since 60 is the new 40; I'd say you have some good times ahead of you.
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Can Marijuana Increase Libido?
It slows down our brain waves so we can more readily access our bodily senses.
Is There Any Way to Make Your Penis Bigger?
I encourage genital massage along with masturbation for both women and men.
Is the G-spot Part of the Clitoris?
At best this form of vaginal stimulation would be what I call "indirect clitoral stimulation.
Can Masturbation Make Me Infertile?
Your vaginal discharge/infection is not the result of you current or past masturbation.
Women Don't Get Me Hard...Am I Gay?
A person can be straight and have gay fantasies or the other way around.
Since Anti-depresssants Orgasms Aren't the Same
Our arousal patterns change as we mature. If not, it's a sign we are stuck in a rut and it's time for a change.
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Loss of Interest in Sex After Having Three Children

Dear Dr. Betty,

Ever since my first child was born I lost the interest in sex. I have always loved sex and my husband and I always had amazing sex before I had my daughter but now I just can't get into it. I used to love for him to suck my nipples now I can't stand it and when ever I cum I lose all interest in it. Please help! My daughter is already 3 and I have a 2 year old and a 2 month old, so we still have sex. But it's not the same.. it's ruining my marriage..

Dear M,

Self Conscious About How Long It Takes Me to Orgasm

Hi Betty,

I've recently started exploring your site and I want to thank you for creating such an open community. I wasn't raised to talk or even think about sex (not that my parents were strict or very religious--it just wasn't something anyone in my family ever discussed, and my parents are not openly affectionate with each other), and so I feel like I'm a little behind in terms of fully accepting myself as a sexual person who enjoys intimacy. But I'm working on it, I really am, and your site is helping me.

Why Do I Pull Away From Clitoral Stimulation?

Dear Betty,

How come i can give myself back to back orgasms while masturbating but yet i pull away from my partner when he tries pleasing me. It feels awesome but before i can orgasm i pull away or push myself away from him like it feels so good i cant handle it, can you help me?

Dear S,

When we pull away from some form of clitoral stimulation it can mean

1. You have already had a small orgasm and the clitoris needs to calm down for a few moments before continuing.

Penetration Hurts & Tears Up My Vagina

Dear Dr. Betty,

I'm 20 years old and started having sex at 16. I'm not sure when exactly it started but I know it didn't happen the first time. Pretty much every single time I have or have tried to have penetrative sex it hurts and/or it tears just below the opening of my vagina. My boyfriend and I have tried more foreplay, lube, different positions etc. It only sometimes changes how bad the issue is not whether or not it happens.

Masturbation Saved Our Marriage

I am now in my early '70s. I now masturbate beside her in bed, in the shower, or at the computer with my large XXX collection.