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They've 3D mapped the nerves of the clitoris and our sex organ is even more extraordinary.
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Once full arousal is reached, I allow myself to get close to coming, but pull back and breathe deep, dropping back down.
My cognitive dissonance kicks in when I consider the glaring omission of human sexuality in political discussions.
The number one sex toy is some kind of additional lubrication.
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For the last several years I have been experiencing ejaculation (premature?) without much if any orgasm.
My doctor suggested stretching myself out with a dildo.
I've never laughed like this during sex.
I have one small labia and one large one.
My clit is tucked away between lots of folds, and it's not very sensitive.
Think my embedded clitoris is blocking my orgasm.
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My Wife Feels Guilty Looking at Porn

Dear Betty,

I love to look at porn. My wife likes to look at times too but feels guilty. We feel like it is a sin, but enjoy it so much. Do you think porn can ruin a marriage? If I look at porn I feel so guilty. I just love my wife and family so much. Sometimes when my wife finds out I look at porn she is so hurt. Why do men struggle with porn so much. I wish I could just not look at it. Do a lot of men struggle with this? -- J

Dear J,

Why are Sex Work and Feminism Mutually Exclusive?

Dear Miss Betty:

March 1st is the anniversary of my first orgasm and I felt it time to thank you for your role in that. After stumbling upon your website two years ago in dire sexual frustration over my "inability" to orgasm, I was inspired by the empowering nature of the material you and Grant have included and proceeded to lay down to enjoy my own sexual responses. Before I knew it - fireworks! I wept and released years' worth of inadequacy.

Betty's Response to the Vagina Monologues

The first time I saw The Vagina Monologues was in 1996 when it was off, off, off Broadway. Friends of mine who'd seen the play had alerted me that the author and sole performer, Eve Ensler, mentioned my workshops. That evening I sat in a small theater listening to a charming young woman who talked about my Women's Sexuality Workshops with a distorted view of what I'd been doing for over twenty-five years. She called it "The Vagina Workshop." Never in my wildest nightmare would I have ever considered using the word vagina to describe the work I'd been doing.