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I Believe Sex is How People are Controlled Which Puts it at the Heart of Politics
My cognitive dissonance kicks in when I consider the glaring omission of human sexuality in political discussions.
How to Best Use a Vibrator
The number one sex toy is some kind of additional lubrication.
My Vagina is tight and dry...can I orgasm?
It's been said that life begins at 40 and since 60 is the new 40; I'd say you have some good times ahead of you.
How Can I Stop My Fantasies?
Your fantasy is a way to rehearse those moments of childhood humiliation, except by ending with an orgasm, you're reclaiming your power from those nasty authority figures.
G-Spot Stimulation Makes Me Have to Pee
Next time you’re fucking, YOU stimulate your clitoris at the same time with however you do it when you masturbate.
A Private Session with a Victim of Female Genital Mutilation

She was so soft spoken on the phone that I had to ask her to speak up several times. Badu told me she was an African woman from Kenya who had been circumcised. Two years ago, she began looking for information to understand what had been done to her as a ten year-old child. She came across my name online and made the call.

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Viewing Your Vulva is the First Step to Becoming a Fully Orgasmic Woman
Discovering the beauty of my vulva dramatically changed my life, especially when it came to being sexually intimate with a partner.
I'm Happy for the Opportunity to Document a Workshop I Ran for 25 Years
One of the most remarkable moments was when I realized that within the 7 women in the group, we had every vulva style I’d ever named.
Women Own Their Bodies & We Can Control Our Reproductive Process
I recently witnessed a young woman have an incredibly easy abortion by taking several pills.
Sexual Fantasy is as Important as Genital Stimulation
Too many girls are putting a vibrator on their clitoris expecting to "get off" as quickly as a boyfriend who ejaculates within a few minutes while viewing porn.
Boyfriend Can't Ejaculate Inside Me
Why can't you enjoy your orgasm and when he wants to come either one of you do manual sex or you could finish him off with oral sex.
How Can I Stop My Fantasies?
Your fantasy is a way to rehearse those moments of childhood humiliation, except by ending with an orgasm, you're reclaiming your power from those nasty authority figures.
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Is It Healthy NOT to Ejaculate

Dear Dr. Betty,

When my girlfriend is giving me oral sex, she likes to place the pad of her thumb between my testicles and anus. If she feels me throbb and knows I'm about to cum, she'll push hard with her thumb there and squeeze the base of my penis with her other hand (index finger and thumb). She does this so I don't ejaculate into her mouth. Is it safe for her to do this to me? Where does the cum backwash go?

Dear JP,

How Do You Tell Someone You've Been Treated for an STD?

Hi Dr. Betty,

Earlier this year I discovered bumps on my outer lips. I was told by the nurse practitioner that they were genital warts. She treated them, they went away, and since then I have not had another recurrence even though I have been under immense stress since then due to work/family issues. I have not really wanted to date/have sex with anyone since because I don't want to deal with the conversation of letting someone know if they have sex with me they will be exposed to genital warts.

Why Is My Penis Shrinking?

Dear Betty:

I am a 57 year old male. My penis length was 7" and girth almost 6 "s For the past 2 years my testicles and penis has been getting smaller. My penis is now 5" and girth 4 and one half inches. Why am I getting smaller and what can I do.I work out and havent gained any weight. Please help...Frightened male.

Dear JC,

Should I Get an IUD?

Hi Betty,

I'm a 44 year old woman and a smoker. i was on the pill from my late teens through my early 30s. since then i've used condoms for birth control. i'm not interested in having children ever.