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My Go to Trick for Orgasm
Once full arousal is reached, I allow myself to get close to coming, but pull back and breathe deep, dropping back down.
I Believe Sex is How People are Controlled Which Puts it at the Heart of Politics
My cognitive dissonance kicks in when I consider the glaring omission of human sexuality in political discussions.
How to Best Use a Vibrator
The number one sex toy is some kind of additional lubrication.
My Vagina is tight and dry...can I orgasm?
It's been said that life begins at 40 and since 60 is the new 40; I'd say you have some good times ahead of you.
How Can I Stop My Fantasies?
Your fantasy is a way to rehearse those moments of childhood humiliation, except by ending with an orgasm, you're reclaiming your power from those nasty authority figures.
G-Spot Stimulation Makes Me Have to Pee
Next time you’re fucking, YOU stimulate your clitoris at the same time with however you do it when you masturbate.
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Why the Fucking You Get Isn’t Worth the Fucking You Get
Masturbating to orgasm right before having vaginal sex is one sure way to make partner sex more enjoyable.
The Art of Getting Apart
Some of us have to face the truth that we are not cut out to be life-partners with anyone but ourselves and our creative projects.
Move Over Kegels...To Keep "Toned" It's About Squats
Now when I talk to a client about PF muscle toning, I'll focus more on letting the pelvic floor relax.
Betty's Rock 'n Roll Orgasms Technique
Betty's uses this technique in her private practice and we teach it in our Bodysex workshops.
Learning Ejaculatory Control

Although society has yet to honor a sexually experienced woman, I’ve gotten a lot of personal satisfaction knowing what I want when it comes to partnersex. It’s always a pleasure to be with a person who is self-assured— confident in their ability to give and receive pleasure.

A Woman's Erection Needs 20-30 Minutes of Adequate Clitoral Stimulation
Once a woman understands she can have both clitoral stimulation with vaginal penetration, it ends this discussion.
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Why Is My Penis Shrinking?

Dear Betty:

I am a 57 year old male. My penis length was 7" and girth almost 6 "s For the past 2 years my testicles and penis has been getting smaller. My penis is now 5" and girth 4 and one half inches. Why am I getting smaller and what can I do.I work out and havent gained any weight. Please help...Frightened male.

Dear JC,

How Do You Tell Someone You've Been Treated for an STD?

Hi Dr. Betty,

Earlier this year I discovered bumps on my outer lips. I was told by the nurse practitioner that they were genital warts. She treated them, they went away, and since then I have not had another recurrence even though I have been under immense stress since then due to work/family issues. I have not really wanted to date/have sex with anyone since because I don't want to deal with the conversation of letting someone know if they have sex with me they will be exposed to genital warts.

The G-spot Revisited

As far as I know, I have never had a G-spot orgasm nor have I ever ejaculated. However, I do know many of my orgasms have been deep, powerful and satisfying. I've also enjoyed those little ten minute maintenance orgasms that release tension. There is no such thing as having a bad orgasm- they all put a smile on my face. Maybe the vaginal orgasms that I managed to squeak out in my twenties would classify as G's. Some were quite accidental and non-repeatable. Others required a thirty minute erection owned by a handsome young man who promised he'd only have sex with me.

Married Woman Who Fantasizes About Other Women

Hi Betty,

I am 25 years old and have been married for almost 4 years and have been with my husband for almost 7 years. Since the day we have met, he has known that I am bi-sexual and I have told him about how I had oral sex with a girl when she and I were both in high school.

When I Orgasm, I Poop A Little!

Dr. Betty-

I really hope you can help because I've never been able to find any info about this or even find someone who believes me. When I orgasm, I poop a little. I don't know if I'm actually pushing without realizing it or just loosening my sphincter, but it happens every time. I don't have any continence issues and go to the bathroom before I get busy, so it's not an issue of nature calling.

Is it Normal for a Straight Man to Obsess Over Men's Genitals?

Dr. Betty,

I have a kind of unusual question, and after seeing you on television, I figured you may be one of the best and knowledgeable people to ask. My ex-husband and I have a fairly good sex life. I think he is not as freaky as he claims to be. His idea of freaky is a threesome (with him running the show). But, since I'm not into it, we have not tried it.