As far as I know, I have never had a G-spot orgasm nor have I ever ejaculated. However, I do know many of my orgasms have been deep, powerful and satisfying. I've also enjoyed those little ten minute maintenance orgasms that release tension.
When I have Sex with My Girl I Ejaculate Within a Minute of Her Touching My Penis or Worse
Hi,
I am 19 year old and have been masturbating from say last 7-8 years. Now when I have sex with my girl, I ejaculate within a minute of her touching my penis or worse..she is a very nice girl and doesn't complain but still I feel like a loser.
What do you think I should do? IS it due to my super fast masturbation sessions in the past?..Is there anything I can do to surprise her?,I do not want to use pills/creams as I am allergic to Sulfur and few more chemicals. Is there any natural way to increase my time or undo what I have done?..:(
Dear M,
I Can't Stop Thinking When I'm Masturbating or Having Sex
Dear Dr. Betty,
I'm 18 years old and have been having sex since I was 15. I've always masturbated since I was little and it has always felt amazing to me. But for a while now I have not been able to achieve orgasm or even have it feel good when I stimulate my clit.
Is the Intimacy of My Marriage Killing My Orgasms?
Dear Betty,
We are a polyamorous couple in our twenties, and while we are each other's primary partners I do have other lovers. Lately, I've been noticing that it seems easier to 'let go' and orgasm with my other partner than with my husband, and I was wondering if it's because the 'stakes are higher' in a long-term relationship, or for some other reason?
Where did This Idea that the Penis is the Sole Instrument of Pleasure for Women Come From?
Hello Doc Betty,
How Do I Get Over My Fear of Sexual Rejection?
Hey Betty,
I would really like to thank you for this amazing website. I discovered your podcasts/website and fell in love. I am consistently inspired by you and Carlin both!
I'm Unable to Climax Without a Vibrator
Hi Dr. Betty,
Oh, where to begin. At 27 years old, I have sort of given up on myself. I have been sexually active for about a decade and have been in loving relationships with different partners. I consider myself quite a sexual person, comfortable with my sexuality, etc. But I am unable to climax without a vibrator (both on my own and with a partner). I originally learned to orgasm at a young age using a make-shift vibrator. Now, when I try to touch myself without a vibrator I either a) find it too intense (directly on the clitoris) or quite dull (around the clitoris).
I Like Having My Cervix Hit
Dr. Betty,
First of all, let me thank you for the fabulous information you have on this site. It's truly amazing.
I did a search on the site, and unfortunately, I couldn't find anything on this topic. You see, I'm a rather petite woman, only 5'2"... However, for some reason, I like having my cervix stimulated vigorously during sex. This wasn't always so, and it started developing after I had my children.
Love to Perform Oral Sex on My Girlfriend When She's Very Musky
Dear Betty,
I love to perform oral sex on my girlfriend when she is very musky. I find it very erotic and exciting. If she has been to the gym, hasn't showered for a day, or especially the day after intercourse are the most exciting for me. The extremely musky scent and tangy taste drives me wild. She likes it too but is concerned that there might be a health risk from not washing.
Will I Know It When I Have a Non-Pressure Orgasm?
Dear Betty,
First of all, thanks for the amazing resources you have here! For the first time since I started trying to understand my own orgasms–it's been about four years!–I found validation for my own experiences. As it turns out, I've been giving myself pressure orgasms since I was young, and I, like others who have submitted questions, was worried that I had "ruined" my clitoris. After reading your techniques and tips I feel confident that I can wean myself off the pressure orgasm and learn some new tricks, and hopefully even orgasm with a partner.