As far as I know, I have never had a G-spot orgasm nor have I ever ejaculated. However, I do know many of my orgasms have been deep, powerful and satisfying. I've also enjoyed those little ten minute maintenance orgasms that release tension.
Can I Mis-Use My Vibrator?
Dr. Betty,
How Do I Let Lovers Know We Need to Use Lubricant?
dear betty,
first of all, thanks so much for your website. since i discovered it i started feeling so much better and adventurous about my sex life. however, there is one question that is still unsatisfied. as some of the other women that wrote you i have problems with getting wet (enough) during sex. when i had my boyfriend we eventually started using lube and it was great.
Want to Stop Humping My Old Blanket for Orgasms
Hi Dr. Betty,
Doctor Said I'm Anorgasmic
Hi Betty,
I'm seventeen years old, have been masturbating since I had sufficient dexterity, and have never achieved an orgasm (to my knowlege). Maybe I did when I was younger, but not since I could remember. I know that you're probably thinking that I'm young and should give it more time, but I'm very well researched and have tried a lot and this particular issue is the source of a lot of anxiety and misery for me, though I've came to accept it more than I used to of late.
How Do I Stimulate My G-spot During Masturbation?
Hello!
I'm a twenty-year-old woman, and a big fan of yours. My first sexual partner and I drew a lot of inspiration from your videos and articles last year, and I must say you helped us have a delightful and pleasurable time as we discovered our sexualities together.
My question is about fingering myself! I just love it when partners finger me, using two in an up-and-down motion to really stimulate the inner wall of my clitoris. When I try to do that myself, my fingers get tired after just a few 'thrusts'! Is there a particular technique I should be trying?
I Can't Stop Thinking When I'm Masturbating or Having Sex
Dear Dr. Betty,
I'm 18 years old and have been having sex since I was 15. I've always masturbated since I was little and it has always felt amazing to me. But for a while now I have not been able to achieve orgasm or even have it feel good when I stimulate my clit.
When I have Sex with My Girl I Ejaculate Within a Minute of Her Touching My Penis or Worse
Hi,
I am 19 year old and have been masturbating from say last 7-8 years. Now when I have sex with my girl, I ejaculate within a minute of her touching my penis or worse..she is a very nice girl and doesn't complain but still I feel like a loser.
What do you think I should do? IS it due to my super fast masturbation sessions in the past?..Is there anything I can do to surprise her?,I do not want to use pills/creams as I am allergic to Sulfur and few more chemicals. Is there any natural way to increase my time or undo what I have done?..:(
Dear M,
I Don't Want to Ruin Our Sex Lives Because I Can't Swallow His Cum
Dear Dr. Betty,
I'm 17 years old and my boyfriend and I have been engaging in oral sex for the whole of our relationship. My problem is that when i give him a blowjob and he cums in my mouth i just can't swallow.
Is the Intimacy of My Marriage Killing My Orgasms?
Dear Betty,
We are a polyamorous couple in our twenties, and while we are each other's primary partners I do have other lovers. Lately, I've been noticing that it seems easier to 'let go' and orgasm with my other partner than with my husband, and I was wondering if it's because the 'stakes are higher' in a long-term relationship, or for some other reason?