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Can you curve your penis from your masturbation technique?

As far as I know, I have never had a G-spot orgasm nor have I ever ejaculated. However, I do know many of my orgasms have been deep, powerful and satisfying. I've also enjoyed those little ten minute maintenance orgasms that release tension. 

I am still very much attracted to women, I only masturbate to female porn, and I would really like to have another female encounter.
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How Do I Move Past the Idea of Sex as Currency?

Dear Dr Betty,

Let me start off my saying how much your website has helped me learn more about my body and my sexuality, your help has been invaluable.

I've always been a sexual person. As a child I was always the one suggesting playing doctor, or even the more daring "I'll show you mine if you show me yours". I always figured I would start having sex relatively young, however the opportunity never really arose and when it finally did something always went wrong.

How Do I Talk to My Lover About Anal Stimulation?

Hi Betty!

Can I start off by saying that you're incredible and I'm very glad to have found you and your work. So, on to my question. I'm a 22 year old lesbian and I feel that I am very in touch with my body, my needs, wants, etc. I just recently got engaged to my partner who is at present in the Army. We've spoken about all things pertaining to our individual sexualities and agree on 99% of each others wants and needs.

I Have Sex Shyness. I Can Only Have Sex Drunk

Dear Betty,

I'm a 21 going on 22 year old woman with a great shyness to getting naked and having sex with my F.W.B (friends with benefits) He's older then I am and we've done it more then four times since we met (which was almost about a year ago now) , but I'm still shy every time we had intercourse! The only time I'm actually not shy and panicking about having sex with him was when I'm stone cold drunk!

Can you please give me some tips on how to stop this shyness/panicking/nervousness without having to resort to drinking?

Dear A,

I Want to Orgasm From a Penis

Dr. Betty

At the beginning sorry for my English, is not my native language. I have seen film “Petals” by Beck Peacock, and I realized I have “dancing woman” clitoris (Ina Laughing Winds identified this type in movie).

I Just Can't Get Wet During Sex

Dear Dr. Betty,

I'm 17 and I masturbate almost every other day or so. I have had sex 6 times with my boyfriend. No matter what I try or what he tries, I just can't get wet. It's not that I can't turn myself on or that he can't, I would always feel hot but that is it.

My Erection is Curved Downward. Intercourse is Difficult

Hi Dr. Betty Dodson

Thank you for your help you gave me a couple of years ago. [concerning my interest in the foot of a grandma princess ] I have another question. As you know not all erections are straight and mine curves downward so steeply that I have had difficulty in engaging in proper intercourse. I have enclosed a picture for you to see for yourself what I am talking about. Do you know why my erection curves like this?

Doctor Said I'm Anorgasmic

Hi Betty,

I'm seventeen years old, have been masturbating since I had sufficient dexterity, and have never achieved an orgasm (to my knowlege). Maybe I did when I was younger, but not since I could remember. I know that you're probably thinking that I'm young and should give it more time, but I'm very well researched and have tried a lot and this particular issue is the source of a lot of anxiety and misery for me, though I've came to accept it more than I used to of late.