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I Can Trust in Bodysex
One of the women described the experience as a giant “trust fall”.
My Go to Trick for Orgasm
Once full arousal is reached, I allow myself to get close to coming, but pull back and breathe deep, dropping back down.
I Believe Sex is How People are Controlled Which Puts it at the Heart of Politics
My cognitive dissonance kicks in when I consider the glaring omission of human sexuality in political discussions.
How to Best Use a Vibrator
The number one sex toy is some kind of additional lubrication.
My Vagina is tight and dry...can I orgasm?
It's been said that life begins at 40 and since 60 is the new 40; I'd say you have some good times ahead of you.
How Can I Stop My Fantasies?
Your fantasy is a way to rehearse those moments of childhood humiliation, except by ending with an orgasm, you're reclaiming your power from those nasty authority figures.
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The Myth of the Vaginal Orgasm by Anne Koedt
After I read the article below by Anne Koedt in 1970, I was thrilled and made a cold call hoping to meet and discuss how we could collaborate.
Should I Get an IUD?
How about the diaphragm that has fallen out fashion?
Why Is My Penis Shrinking?
As we age, gravity takes a toll and things do shrink or appear to be smaller.
How Do You Tell Someone You've Been Treated for an STD?
I just want to be honest but also don't want to scare people off.
My Son Noticed an Arch In His Erection
Can you curve your penis from your masturbation technique?
The G-spot Revisited

As far as I know, I have never had a G-spot orgasm nor have I ever ejaculated. However, I do know many of my orgasms have been deep, powerful and satisfying. I've also enjoyed those little ten minute maintenance orgasms that release tension. 

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How Do I Help My Boyfriend Get Kinky?

Hello Betty.

I recently discovered your (words cannot describe, but I'll try) incredibly helpful and wonderful site (my favorite aspect so far has gotta be your video podcasts with carlin), I JUST got an account about ten minutes ago, and I've built up the courage to ask you a question. I think I need to explain my sexual history, though, to get an "educated" response. My current sexual partner is my only ever sexual partner.

How Do I Move Past the Idea of Sex as Currency?

Dear Dr Betty,

Let me start off my saying how much your website has helped me learn more about my body and my sexuality, your help has been invaluable.

I've always been a sexual person. As a child I was always the one suggesting playing doctor, or even the more daring "I'll show you mine if you show me yours". I always figured I would start having sex relatively young, however the opportunity never really arose and when it finally did something always went wrong.

How Do I Talk to My Lover About Anal Stimulation?

Hi Betty!

Can I start off by saying that you're incredible and I'm very glad to have found you and your work. So, on to my question. I'm a 22 year old lesbian and I feel that I am very in touch with my body, my needs, wants, etc. I just recently got engaged to my partner who is at present in the Army. We've spoken about all things pertaining to our individual sexualities and agree on 99% of each others wants and needs.

I Have Sex Shyness. I Can Only Have Sex Drunk

Dear Betty,

I'm a 21 going on 22 year old woman with a great shyness to getting naked and having sex with my F.W.B (friends with benefits) He's older then I am and we've done it more then four times since we met (which was almost about a year ago now) , but I'm still shy every time we had intercourse! The only time I'm actually not shy and panicking about having sex with him was when I'm stone cold drunk!

Can you please give me some tips on how to stop this shyness/panicking/nervousness without having to resort to drinking?

Dear A,

I Want to Orgasm From a Penis

Dr. Betty

At the beginning sorry for my English, is not my native language. I have seen film “Petals” by Beck Peacock, and I realized I have “dancing woman” clitoris (Ina Laughing Winds identified this type in movie).

I Just Can't Get Wet During Sex

Dear Dr. Betty,

I'm 17 and I masturbate almost every other day or so. I have had sex 6 times with my boyfriend. No matter what I try or what he tries, I just can't get wet. It's not that I can't turn myself on or that he can't, I would always feel hot but that is it.

My Erection is Curved Downward. Intercourse is Difficult

Hi Dr. Betty Dodson

Thank you for your help you gave me a couple of years ago. [concerning my interest in the foot of a grandma princess ] I have another question. As you know not all erections are straight and mine curves downward so steeply that I have had difficulty in engaging in proper intercourse. I have enclosed a picture for you to see for yourself what I am talking about. Do you know why my erection curves like this?