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Hi Dr. Betty,

Oh, where to begin. At 27 years old, I have sort of given up on myself. I have been sexually active for about a decade and have been in loving relationships with different partners. I consider myself quite a sexual person, comfortable with my sexuality, etc. But I am unable to climax without a vibrator (both on my own and with a partner). I originally learned to orgasm at a young age using a make-shift vibrator. Now, when I try to touch myself without a vibrator I either a) find it too intense (directly on the clitoris) or quite dull (around the clitoris).

Hey Betty,

I would really like to thank you for this amazing website. I discovered your podcasts/website and fell in love. I am consistently inspired by you and Carlin both!

Hello Doc Betty,

Hi Betty,

Using the advise from your videos and site I was able to give my partner an orgasm like she'd never experienced before. The look on her face was priceless. A woman truly enjoying herself is very sexy.

Hi Dr. Betty,

I've been with my SO for almost 5 years. I was always used to having sex and it being fun but not getting real 'pleasure' out of it. Then we got pregnant and I was my normal nyphmo sex goddess, and I started being able to have vaginal orgasms and multiple vaginal orgasms at that.

Dear Betty,

There is something I am curious about, I don't know if you have ever run across an answer in your studies.

Maybe people are in sexless marriages, and many people have the opinion that it is wrong to have an extramarital affair. What do those people in the latter group think is the solution for those of us in the first group? I know you are not a proponent of "mating in captivity", and I know where you stand on extramarital sex.

Dear Betty,

I am a 48 year old man who throughout my life has only ever been able to achieve ejaculation by employing a technique which effectively applied pressure to the point below my scrotum whilst at the same time stimulating my penis, so for example, i would masturbate whilst sitting astride a chair.

I have never been able to reach orgasm through conventional sex or by conventional masturbation and wonder why this might be. Any ideas would be welcome

Best regards
C

Dear C,

Hello Betty,

Dear Dr. Betty

Now 21, I have been heavily curious in exploring different acts of sex since I first started masturbating - whether with males, females, multiple partners, role play, manual, fetishism, fantasy, and so on. It would first take an imaginative form, (and regrettably I'd have sought out pornography to fulfill it) but eventually I began to physically experiment with my fellow friends which gave me much excitement and enjoyment. My appetite for new sexual experiences merely grew.

Dear Betty,

First of all, thank you for your work, it helped me to recover my sexual self after psychological trauma during my childhood, which stripped me of my sexuality up until I was 20. I had to teach myself how to masturbate at the age of 19, and slowly I became able to orgasm with partners, and enjoy my casual and non-casual sexual adventures through and through. I find sex to be a fun thing to do, I take care of my needs, I love pleasing my partners, I love to show them and tell them what turns me on, I love fucking and making love, I love to shag men and women equally.