As far as I know, I have never had a G-spot orgasm nor have I ever ejaculated. However, I do know many of my orgasms have been deep, powerful and satisfying. I've also enjoyed those little ten minute maintenance orgasms that release tension.
Women Having Independent Orgasms will Change the World
In 1970 I read an article in Notes from the Second Year, a radical feminist periodical founded by Shulamith Firestone. The article was titled "The Myth of the Vaginal Orgasm" by Anne Koedt. From the title alone, I knew I had to speak to the woman who wrote it.
How Do You Start to Feel Comfortable Around Men?
Hello Dr. Betty,
Before I ask my question, I would like to thank both you and Carlin very deeply for changing a lot of my attitudes on sex, and making it a little less scary and confusing for women like me. I hope you have many more years of doing such a good service to people all around the world.
Is There a Healthy Way to Keep Porn in My Life?
Dear Dr Betty,
I'm a 24 year old male and I have been using pornography and masturbating since I was 13 or 14. It never occurred to me that it was a problem until recently, when a friend sent me a link to this video:
How Do I Get BF to Slow Down & Regain Sensitivity?
Dear Dr. Betty,
I've recently started seeing a guy who I know finds me very attractive and has no trouble becoming aroused and getting/maintaining an erection with me. However, we will have sex for a very long time (which is certainly enjoyable) but of course after a while it's TOO much, especially given the size of his penis (very large) and he never comes.
Open to Threesome But Don't Want to Ruin Marriage
Hi Betty!
I just recently found your site & let me tell you, it is exactly what I've been looking for - an informative, classy site for people who have real sexual questions & concerns. Thank you!
Did I Have an Orgasm?
It's been more than a year since I first messaged you... With a few questions about never have had an orgasm. I am almost 35 now.
I have dedicated hundreds of hours to myself and masturbating since then. I bought a barbell and the fabulous magic wand. I have read all your website, your books, DVDs...
Adventurous Virgin Asks How Do I Open Up Sexually?
Dear Dr. Betty,
How Do I Accept My Post-Birth Vagina?
Hello lovely Betty and Carlin :)
I am 26, a single mother of an almost 9 year old, and I have recently lost around 130 pounds. As much as my "new body" isn't perfect (loose skin galore, stretch marks, saggy boobs etc) that isn't my main concern. The skin around my vaginal opening had been "itchy" (for lack of a better word) for a few weeks. I woke up one night after some quite major cramping and pressure (which I thought maybe was an early period) with blood on my thighs and it just felt "wrong" down there.
I Never Had Desire for Sex. My Daughter Doesn't Either & It's Impacting Her Marriage
Dear Dr. Betty,
I have never had much desire for sex. Even as a teenager, I lacked the basic drive for any kind of sexual encounter-with boys or simple masturbation. It impacted my first marriage and now is a factor in my second. I am 57 so I have given up on myself but it is breaking my heart that my daughter is going through the same thing.
What is the Ideal Penis Size for Women's Pleasure?
Hi Betty,
I was wondering about penis size. My questions are 1. What is the ideal size a penis needs to be to pleasure a woman? 2. Do all women like really large penises like in porn? 3. How important is penis size In a relationship? 4. What can a man do to give a woman pleasure if he happens to have a small penis?