As far as I know, I have never had a G-spot orgasm nor have I ever ejaculated. However, I do know many of my orgasms have been deep, powerful and satisfying. I've also enjoyed those little ten minute maintenance orgasms that release tension.
I Want to Orgasm From Penetration
Dear Dr. Betty,
Hey, I'm A and I'm 17. I've been into sex from such a young age around 7 or 8 years old. I've always masturbated since then and always get to my orgasm and it feels so good. I started out humping up until I was 13 or so. I used my hands to massage clit area and came every time. I then used vibrating massager on clit and vagina area and it gave me a more intense orgasm, which I loved even more so I got addicted to it.
Uncomfortable with My Vulva & Labia
Dear Betty,
How Can I Improve My PC Muscle?
Hello Betty, I am so very happy to have found your site a few years ago. I have learned a lot!
What is the best way to go about 'fixing' my PC muscle? I have been with the same partner for nearly 15 years and we have had three kids. I am 33, my youngest is six. I have never done anything to help myself along the way, now I'm in panic mode.
Can Only Orgasm the Way I Did as a Child
Hello,
I had my first orgasm in elementary school, as I was trying to climb up a rope. I didn't realize what it was at the time but I remember I knew I liked it, and would sneak back and try to climb up it whenever I could to experience that again. I also did this with poles, and then eventually on a door- I would hold the handles and bring my legs up around the door and do it that way.
Should I Have Sex with a Married Man?
Dear Dr. Betty,
Hello, let me start off by saying you are an inspiration and a very talented women. And I desperately need advise.
For a while now my stomach has been turning with adrenalin, excitement, lust and fear. I understand that it is morally wrong to engage in any sexual content with a married man, but both of us are consenting adults. He approached me first and we have continued to flirt back and forth ever since. I have known him for a while before it was sexual and know he is a safe man that would not take advantage of me.
How Do I Overcome Jealousy?
Dear Dr. Betty,
I'm a 30yr old female living in North America. I've been in a monogamous relationship for almost 3yrs now. We have the most amazing sexual relationship I have ever experienced and as a result we have both been able to openly discuss and explore all of our kinks and fantasies. I've never felt so sexually liberated.
I'm Aroused But Can't Reach Orgasm
Hi Dr,
I have been reading a lot of these posts and can somewhat relate to most of what people are saying...however, there are a few differences.
When I was young, I never masturbated, I would sometimes be aroused but didn't know what to do (I guess I was pretty repressed and confused) so the feeling would eventually pass. I cannot remember the exact age I was...but over the past maybe 10-15 years (I'm 26 now) I have never felt particularly aroused. I've had sex, but I cannot actually reach arousal let alone orgasm.
How Do I Retrain My PC Muscles to Pull In & Not Push Out?
Dear Dr. Betty,
Help. I think I've trained my pelvic muscles to push out instead of in - I can expel one of your barbells easily when I cum but I cannot easily 'stop mid-pee', and now I am peeing when I cough...
I really need a suggestion re: weights or a toy/tool that will help me IDENTIFY and retrain my muscles correctly (I do squirt when I cum, don't know if that is related) there are so many weights and kegel exercisers online, I'm hoping you've got an expert opinion on this.
Thank you so much in advance
N
Dear N,
How Do I Get Off Without the Use of Porn?
Hi Dr.Betty,
My name is C and I'm 18. I'm wondering how I can get off without the use of porn. I've tried fantasizing but that only gets me so far. After a while I give up. Ever since I started masturbating, I would always use porn to get me off. I'd feel the intense feeling along with the great aftershocks. I know, seems a little ridiculous...using porn nearly every time. But now I have a boyfriend. We have had sex and it was pleasurable but it'd be more pleasurable if I could still get that intense feeling when I masturbate and have an orgasm too.
How Can I Ease Her Dildo Pain?
Dear Dr. Betty,
My girlfriend and I have a few sex toys, all different sizes and texture. This is her 2nd lesbian relationship, where as I have had intercourse with a man for over 8 years versus her 6 months.
The issue is that our dildos hurt her and sex with men rarely hurt her. My insecurities are going "shit, she wants a man" ...but, I would like to know what I can do to ease her pain and cause more satisfaction.
I know dildos or even fingers at times hurt me, even when I crave something inside - and I have to have her take it slow. Any advice?