I Want to Orgasm From Penetration

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Betty Dodson

Dear Dr. Betty,

Hey, I'm A and I'm 17. I've been into sex from such a young age around 7 or 8 years old. I've always masturbated since then and always get to my orgasm and it feels so good. I started out humping up until I was 13 or so. I used my hands to massage clit area and came every time. I then used vibrating massager on clit and vagina area and it gave me a more intense orgasm, which I loved even more so I got addicted to it.

I was curious so I started using a brush after my fingers wouldn't work and I couldn't come then and so I started rubbing my clit and did that and it still wouldn't work! I obviously can't come with penetration and I so desperately want to.

Dear A,

Sorry kiddo, we all start off desperately wanting to come from vaginal penetration because it would seem to make sense. Since that's what works for him. But no, we need to have our clitoris engaged during intercourse. So I teach couples to include clitoral stimulation with vaginal penetration.

Just finger you sweet clitty while you are fucking yourself with a better dildo. Peel the outer skin off an organic carrot or zucchini and make it the size you prefer. You're young enough to go back to your fingers. Then you can stimulate your clitoris during partner sex and even show him how you prefer it done. Later on you can always add the vibrator and make it a threesome.

Dr. Betty