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I Can Trust in Bodysex

One of the women described the experience as a giant “trust fall”.

My Go to Trick for Orgasm

Once full arousal is reached, I allow myself to get close to coming, but pull back and breathe deep, dropping back down.

I Believe Sex is How People are Controlled Which Puts it at the Heart of Politics

My cognitive dissonance kicks in when I consider the glaring omission of human sexuality in political discussions.

How to Best Use a Vibrator

The number one sex toy is some kind of additional lubrication.

My Vagina is tight and dry...can I orgasm?

It's been said that life begins at 40 and since 60 is the new 40; I'd say you have some good times ahead of you.

How Can I Stop My Fantasies?

Your fantasy is a way to rehearse those moments of childhood humiliation, except by ending with an orgasm, you're reclaiming your power from those nasty authority figures.

After I read the article below by Anne Koedt in 1970, I was thrilled and made a cold call hoping to meet and discuss how we could collaborate.

Should I Get an IUD?

How about the diaphragm that has fallen out fashion?

Why Is My Penis Shrinking?

As we age, gravity takes a toll and things do shrink or appear to be smaller.

How Do You Tell Someone You've Been Treated for an STD?

I just want to be honest but also don't want to scare people off.

My Son Noticed an Arch In His Erection

Can you curve your penis from your masturbation technique?

The G-spot Revisited

As far as I know, I have never had a G-spot orgasm nor have I ever ejaculated. However, I do know many of my orgasms have been deep, powerful and satisfying. I've also enjoyed those little ten minute maintenance orgasms that release tension.

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Can You Permanently Desensitize Your Clitoris?

Dr. Betty-

I know you're probably going to say that I'm just being paranoid, but here goes:

About a week ago, my boyfriend was rubbing my clit, and he did it quite a bit too hard. It took me a few days to recover. My clit was almost completely numb and wouldn't become erect in the slightest. It has feeling again in it now and is becoming erect when I'm aroused, but the pleasure I used to get from rubbing it is almost entirely gone.

When I'm Aroused My Clitoris Swells to the Size of My Thumb

Hi Betty.

I am a bit worried about my clitoris. Recently when aroused my clitoris swells to be huge. Similar in size to a my thumb, to the point I can feel it very obviously when I walk and very visible from the outer lips. I have never noticed this before and has only been happening the last 2-3 months. Is this something I should get checked out or is it normal? If I should get it checked out who should I go to for this type of problem?

Thanks for any help you can give!

Dear S,

Can I Train My Body to Orgasm Faster?

Dear Dr. Betty,

I Have No Sensation in My Vagina

Hey Dr. Betty!

I have an uncooperative vagina. My clitoris and I get along really really well but my vagina and I? Not so much. For much of my teens I had vaginismus that prevented me from wanting any sort of penetration during masturbation sessions. There was no partner-sex. Now that I'm in my early twenties I have wanted to expand my routine a little and include penetration. So far most of my issues with vaginismus have disappeared, but I now have next to no sensation in my vagina.