Dear Dr. Betty Hello,

I’m 16 years old by now and I have been dating my boyfriend for 8 months. We have had sex by all this time and I have always experienced the same when he penetrates me, anything. Before penetration we normally masturbate each other and he usually plays with my clitoris, this gives me pleasure but at the same time I get super stressed and I just can think about him stopping masturbating me.

Discovering the beauty of my vulva dramatically changed my life, especially when it came to being sexually intimate with a partner.

I recently witnessed a young woman have an incredibly easy abortion by taking several pills.

You would get more out of masturbation by doing it less and spending more time "edging" or holding off your orgasm.

All genitals feel more sensitive when you apply lubricant especially oil. Never tough a clitoris with a dry hand.

Creating a context where you can take back control can be healing.

Your vagina will gradually change as the muscles are slowly stretched.

Female ejaculate is clear not white like male ejaculation. Our sexual response is totally different.