Dr. Betty-

I know you're probably going to say that I'm just being paranoid, but here goes:

About a week ago, my boyfriend was rubbing my clit, and he did it quite a bit too hard. It took me a few days to recover. My clit was almost completely numb and wouldn't become erect in the slightest. It has feeling again in it now and is becoming erect when I'm aroused, but the pleasure I used to get from rubbing it is almost entirely gone.

Dear Betty

I am 58 and just recently married a 65 year old widower. All my life I felt embarrassed by a very plump and elongated clitoris. A always masturbated even from a young age-by rubbing the shaft. I always felt an orgasm in my vagina and my clitoris. I love my husband so much. He is the first man to understand me sexually. He will lovingly masturbate my clitoris which is really like a small penis while I'm lying in bed in his arms for time on end. I feel so loved and complete and for the first time I know how lucky I am to be different.

B

Hello Betty,

Dear Betty,

I am a 19 year old woman. The first time I had sex with a partner was a little over a year ago but I have been sexually active for as long as I can remember.

Dear Betty,

I am a 40 year old woman. I have never been able to have an orgasm from oral sex. I was married for 15 years to someone who didn't like to go down on me, so I have limited experience with it. But I have a partner right now who loves giving oral. So I'd like to take advantage of it but I can't seem to do it. I can orgasm from masturbation without a problem. Can you help? Thanks so much.

Dear AD,

Hi Betty & Carlin,

Hi Betty,

I am working in the sexual field doing massage and Lingam and Yoni massage. I had a client today who has never masturbated and she turns 30 this year. I told her that we could do an explorative session like yours whereby we take a mirror and learn how to touch and show her the different aspects of her Yoni.

Dr. Dodson,

A few years ago, you wrote

"I would agree with the Orthodox Jews on this one point. . . .men can't do anything but have sexual intercourse with their wives, while she can do anything like masturbate, use vibes, dildos, porn anything at all. It a reverse double standard in a way. The female sex drive far exceeds that of the male but it remains one of the best kept secrets thanks to our sexual double standard."

Dear Betty,

As a child and early teen I experienced sexual force by an adult repeatedly. I would squeeze my vagina very tight to prevent penetration. It only angered the adult and ultimately did not prevent him.

As a result when I finally had sex with my someone in my age group as a young adult I cried. Many years later with grown children and I'm menopausal now I find if I am not active my vagina closes up. I have a partner now and after a long time of celibacy he re-opened me and it was very painful.

Dear Dr. Betty,

When I was quite young I started masturbating by crossing my legs and then rubbing my thighs. At that time, I didn't knew at all what it is, but since I used to like it I continued doing it. I used to come within minutes. now when I try to masturbate I am not able to have an orgasm.

I feel a pleasant pressure but that's it..Nothing more than that.my bf touched me, used to finger me often but it was of no use. I wanted to know if this cross legged rubbing has affected my sexual life? Will I will be able to have an orgasm.?