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Hi Dr. Betty,

I'll tell u my story but first my problem is I have dark labia majora and black very large redundant labia minora P.S. I'm a virgin arabic girl engaged and get married in july. It rubs in the panties and I have to put them inside using my fingers everytime I pee or change my panties they look disgusting and very ugly.  I consulted 4 different drs 3 women 2 in usa both of them recommended labiaplasty and 2 in my arabic country. 1 of them recommended surgery and one silenced after examining me for a minute and then said get married have sex first and see if u satisfied or not. He told me these surgeries aren't recommended to virgins because it may cause mutilations or being cold sexually afterwards.what is ur opinion ?

The second part of my story is I wasn't like that but it's a result of some kind of psychic disorder I don't know what it's till now" I'm a fresh graduate of medical school in my country" I used to apply pressure using a chair inside my vulva I did this for around 15 years and masturbation for 7 years then I stopped..Is masturbation harmful ? I don't don't do anything now. I decided before not to get married ever because I'm scared to death from the idea of having sex.

I said to myself he'll run away and divorce me the next morning,but I got engahed and love mh fiance so much that I really want to have sex with him and enjoy sex but I'm scared.p.s. I'm a PCO patient whicheans that I have high sexual desire because pf higj testosterone in my body. I got to this website by coincidence.I can't figure its map till now I just need consultation.

please help me

N

Dear N,

Your labia are part of your sex organ. They become erect during sex and they enhance your pleasure and his. They actually hug the penis during sexual intercourse so please learn to love them. The one doctor told you the truth. Something might go wrong during the surgery to damage your vulva.

Instead of obsessing over the size and color of your labia, learn to masturbate and have orgasms which any man would appreciate. Otherwise you will become just another pre-orgasmic women tolerating sex to please him. All the information you need is inside the website for free.

Dr. Betty