Hi Betty and Carlin,

For every smart man who has ever asked, “What do women want?” the sexual desires of each wish list will differ from woman to woman and will depend upon her age. When I was a romance junkie in my early twenties, I went along with whatever kind of sex each boyfriend did as long as he was cute, promised to only have sex with me and said he loved me.

Hi Betty,

My husband and I have been together since we were teenagers. As a result he is the only partner i have ever had. We are now on our 13th year of being together. We began having sex early in our relationship and we have learned together about what we like and don't like. I have a question though that I have always wondered about.

Hi,

I am 19 year old and have been masturbating from say last 7-8 years. Now when I have sex with my girl, I ejaculate within a minute of her touching my penis or worse..she is a very nice girl and doesn't complain but still I feel like a loser.

What do you think I should do? IS it due to my super fast masturbation sessions in the past?..Is there anything I can do to surprise her?,I do not want to use pills/creams as I am allergic to Sulfur and few more chemicals. Is there any natural way to increase my time or undo what I have done?..:(

Dear M,

Hi Dr. Betty Dodson

Thank you for your help you gave me a couple of years ago. [concerning my interest in the foot of a grandma princess ] I have another question. As you know not all erections are straight and mine curves downward so steeply that I have had difficulty in engaging in proper intercourse. I have enclosed a picture for you to see for yourself what I am talking about. Do you know why my erection curves like this?

Hi Betty

I'm in my teens and my penis is 4 & 1/2 inches because of this I masturbate regularly because I am sensitive emotionally about my penis size, but in the past 6 months I have been unable to achieve a proper orgasm when I masturbate I just ejaculate and that's it. I have tried many things like taking it slow (40 minutes to be precise), put on my favorite porn, used lube, played with my anus, everything I could think of, I attended to touch my prostate but that was unsuccessful.

Please Betty I desperately need your help.

V

Dear V,

Hi Dr Betty,

Might as well state the problem right up front.

I seem to have a problem ejaculating during intercourse.

Hello Betty,

Dear Betty,

I am a 48 year old man who throughout my life has only ever been able to achieve ejaculation by employing a technique which effectively applied pressure to the point below my scrotum whilst at the same time stimulating my penis, so for example, i would masturbate whilst sitting astride a chair.

I have never been able to reach orgasm through conventional sex or by conventional masturbation and wonder why this might be. Any ideas would be welcome

Best regards
C

Dear C,

Dear Dr. Betty,

I know women joke around & say that they wish men would last longer. Well in my (admittedly low) sexual experience most women can only take about 20 minutes before they are worn out. Wheras i take a minimum of twenty minutes but i usually take 45-80 minutes to climax don't get me wrong i orgasm every 10 minutes or so but i take to long to ejaculate. & it is NOT death grip syndrome because in a loose vagina i cum faster than i do in a tight one.