From Trauma to Orgasms

Every woman has been sexually abused by the culture. You can move through past trauma and get to pleasure.

Masturbation Saved Our Marriage

I am now in my early '70s. I now masturbate beside her in bed, in the shower, or at the computer with my large XXX collection.

How Do I Explain to My 4 Year Old to Touch Herself in Private?

Dear Betty,

I love your site, it has helped me a lot, thank you and Carlin for the wonderful work you do.

I have a four year old girl, since she was three she loves to touch her vulva, she opens her legs and touch her all the time, everywhere, I want to be a sex positive mother so I let her do it, but I always try to make her understand that she has to do it in her room not in front other people, but she touches herself in the subway, in our living room, where she wants, I don't know what to do, if you could help me with your wisdom I will be very grateful to you.

Fear the Mess of Masturbation

Hi Betty,

I am a 23 year old male and I have been masturbating since I was 13. Ive struggled with the fear of making mess from ejaculating for a long time and that really kills the experience. I have a fear I guess of getting my semen all over myself. I know this is normal but I just can't get my brain to enjoy my orgasm if I don't ejaculated into a tissue.

Are there any ways I can overcome this problem?

M

Dear M,

The Hand Phallus Dalliance

Our fingertips are among the most sensitive parts of the body densely packed with thousands of nerve endings which produce complex patterns of nervous impulses.

Bodies and Brunch

The circle is focused on each woman finding her own pleasure – in her own way, on her own timeline, without judgment or pressure from a partner or lover.