Once you verbalize your concerns both your partner and you will feel more at ease.

Since you are orgasmic with masturbation and have self penetrated your vagina, "virgin" no longer applies.

Just have your birth control in place then feel free to use him for your first experiment with "going all the way."

Question all authority including monogamy that is basically a religious construct that allows a few to manipulate many.

I need to masturbate more and spend more quality time with myself.

Once we have sex with a person, we are in a "relationship" what follows that is to describe what kind.

I'm a 40 year old unmarried woman who owns nothing and lives with her business partner and parents.

At first I too felt "dirty" and "infected" and had a temporary freak out.

Guilt and shame will block your orgasms especially with a partner.

Culture, in saying “NO” to empowered female sexuality inadvertently says yes to fear, violence, oppression and ignorance.