It's time for you to have a love affair with yourself while wide awake.
We need to understand that masturbation is having sex.
Having Herpes is no big deal unless you make it one.
The solution lies with her NOT you.
When we engage our minds through fantasy and indulge in some magic herb, you orgasms can take flight.
Every time you orgasm from clitoral stimulation you're demonstrating the female model of sexual response.
We don’t need to believe whatever nonsense our parents believe about life to be loved by them.
Once you verbalize your concerns both your partner and you will feel more at ease.
Since you are orgasmic with masturbation and have self penetrated your vagina, "virgin" no longer applies.
Just have your birth control in place then feel free to use him for your first experiment with "going all the way."