You are a self-sexual which is a valid lifestyle.

You're using sex to torture yourself. Become a celibate priestess for a week or two.

Pleasure is a new sensation for most women. Practice stimulation your body with an open mind.

Herpes is just inconvenient, not a life sentence of some terrible disability.

We are all victims!

It's never too late to learn how to bring yourself to orgasm.

There's no shame here. Strengthen your pc muscle and move on.

One of the important aspects of building more pleasure in our orgasms is to understand this important group of muscles that acts like a sling to support the important organs in our pelvic bowel.

You have to banish negative thoughts to experience pleasure. Sexual fantasies work best.

Orgasm is an intense sensation but it's not painful and it can't kill you. Pleasure is always positive for the body.