Dear Dr. Betty,
Cal and I have been seeing each other off and on for five years. We seem to drift in and out of each others lives fluidly and I have come to love and cherish the freedom within our relationship. I had only been with one other partner when Cal and I started seeing each other and he had never given me an orgasm (although I had given myself plenty).
Dear Dr. Betty,
My spouse of 38 years has developed a wound on her clitoris that actually bleeds. We engage in mutual masturbation on a weekly basis, especially since my prostatectomy for prostate cancer. Since reading your information on masturbation, she has been using the Hitachi magic wand exclusively.
Dear Dr. Betty,
Like most men, I resort to porn videos for entertainment. While watching an unusually attractive girl strip, I was shocked when it turned out her genitals were completely masculine. I mean, I only wish I had a set like hers!
The effect of this was to get me so sexually excited that I masturbated. Does this prove I am part gay?
RD
Dear R,
Hey Betty!
I contacted you a short while ago and you gave me wonderful advice, so if it isn't any trouble, I have a couple more curious questions to ask you.
First of all one of the reasons why I love your site is because I feel very liberated from some of the worry that seems to come along with my sexual fantasies. But for some reason I still feel like I am weird or something. My sexual fantasies involve a lot of themes, during the day I am constantly fantasizing about sex. I am always thinking of my male best friend and I having sex or making out.
Dear Dr. Betty,
I'm 20 years old, I've been active since I was 15, my first partner was as well a virgin and was my so call "first love" sex was great I felt so arroused and satisfied. We broke everything off about two years ago...since Ive had about 4 partners and have not felt the same since...until my recent one....
Dear Dr. Betty,
Dr. Betty,
I'm 18 years old, and last night a friend and I tried to have sex. I have never had penetrative sex before, but he has been with several different girls, although never with a virgin before. I had also never been penetrated with anything at all, including my own fingers, so I wasn't
sure what to expect.
Dear Dr. Betty,
When my boyfriend and I first met we were always having sex and trying new things in the bedroom. Now it seems like he can go weeks without it and I still want sex every few days or so. Then I get frustrated because he doesn't want to have sex and we have an argument and he gets more stressed out about it. I don't want to ruin my relationship with him. Do you have any advice on what to do to make him want sex more? Or what I can do?
Dear E,
Dr. Betty,
I'm a recent college grad and took up a job as helper on a long-haul truck to make ends meet until I can find better work in this economy. On my first trip, I was totally taken off guard by constant erections and I was very embarrassed. Loose, thin sweatpants are comfortable but awful at hiding an erection...especially since I didn't wear underwear.
Dear Dr. Betty,
My boyfriend and I have a great relationship. He is amazing and I am totally satisfied in every way. Sexually as well. He is the first partner I am able to regularly orgasm with during sex and I find him amazingly attractive.
My problem is I think I have an unusually low libido. I greatly enjoy sex when I do have it, and as I stated I have no trouble orgasming. However, I don't feel the need to have sex very often. I would say about a few times a month on average. It's just not something I think about often or feel a very strong need for.
