Is It Wrong to Fantasize About My Girlfriend Being with Another Guy?
Dear Dr. Betty,
I have this crazy fantasy of masturbating while I watch my girl suck off another guy. Is this wrong? How can I bring up this subject with her?
No it's not wrong to have this fantasy. In fact it's quite common. Just don't expect your girl friend to go for it instantly. It's your fantasy not hers. You bring it up just like you did with me. Keep it light-hearted and humorous. No pressure.
You might consider taking a home video of her sucking you off without your face showing and masturbating to that if she turns you down. Be creative! Don't make a big deal out of it. Tell her you will act out one of her fantasies in return.