Hi Betty!

So grateful to have your channel on YouTube, it has been really helpful and healing for me to watch. I wanted to ask you my own question about my special sex life!

Hi Betty,

Until about a year ago I was suffering from primary anorgasmia (which I have put down to the contraceptive pill). I am 24, started having sex at 17. My experiences with orgasms both solo and with a male partner are always clitoral and feel like a wonderful build but more like a ‘sigh’ of release. However, sometimes when I am on top I will have two of these ‘build and sigh’ orgasms and then I have this SUPER strong sexual arousal, the sensation that I’m about to pee and then more of a wave of release. I should note that with none of these do I feel ‘pelvic contractions’.

This guided podcast is for women looking to establish a connection with their bodies.

A beautiful poem about supporting women to connect to their orgasm and "feel more".

As I pen this love letter to my womanhood, I bleed knowing that, at 45, these are the last years of maiden.

I think our sexual preferences are more fluid than we realize.

It is time to redirect the focus on cultivating our sexual relationship with ourselves.

You have to masturbate daily and move through pain, discomfort, and numbness before you get to pleasure.

Too many girls are putting a vibrator on their clitoris expecting to "get off" as quickly as a boyfriend who ejaculates within a few minutes while viewing porn.