When it comes to the magic herb, I will say it is the only true aphrodisiac I've ever encountered.

Most important is to communicate with your wife and listen to what she says.

You'll just have to add fantasy and maybe some sex toys later on to keep it lively.

Get rid of the mirror and look for your beauty within.

The project of coming during intercourse alone seems ridiculous since you have successfully discovered these other alternatives.

Consider the possibility that your masturbation technique needs improving.

I too ended up using d-mannose years ago and it works

It would be nice if you were more accepting of your vulva as a place of beauty and power.

STIs happen and there's no reason to feel shame or deny yourself pleasure.

Keep your lovely labia and dump your stupid boyfriend.