Masturbation Goes From Pleasure to Pain Very Quickly

Dear Dr Betty,

First of all, let me tell you that you really helped my cousin out a lot in discovering her sexuality. (She's the one who recommended you). She didn't know anything about female anatomy and sexuality before discovering you. She still hasn't had a boyfriend, but now embraces her sexuality and regularly masturbates happily.

About me:

I Want to Orgasm From a Penis

Dr. Betty

At the beginning sorry for my English, is not my native language. I have seen film “Petals” by Beck Peacock, and I realized I have “dancing woman” clitoris (Ina Laughing Winds identified this type in movie).

I Have Sex Shyness. I Can Only Have Sex Drunk

Dear Betty,

I'm a 21 going on 22 year old woman with a great shyness to getting naked and having sex with my F.W.B (friends with benefits) He's older then I am and we've done it more then four times since we met (which was almost about a year ago now) , but I'm still shy every time we had intercourse! The only time I'm actually not shy and panicking about having sex with him was when I'm stone cold drunk!

Can you please give me some tips on how to stop this shyness/panicking/nervousness without having to resort to drinking?

Dear A,

How Do I Talk to My Lover About Anal Stimulation?

Hi Betty!

Can I start off by saying that you're incredible and I'm very glad to have found you and your work. So, on to my question. I'm a 22 year old lesbian and I feel that I am very in touch with my body, my needs, wants, etc. I just recently got engaged to my partner who is at present in the Army. We've spoken about all things pertaining to our individual sexualities and agree on 99% of each others wants and needs.

How Do I Move Past the Idea of Sex as Currency?

Dear Dr Betty,

Let me start off my saying how much your website has helped me learn more about my body and my sexuality, your help has been invaluable.

I've always been a sexual person. As a child I was always the one suggesting playing doctor, or even the more daring "I'll show you mine if you show me yours". I always figured I would start having sex relatively young, however the opportunity never really arose and when it finally did something always went wrong.

Can a Person Use a Vibrator Too Much?

Hi Dr. Betty -

I am almost 31 yo and about 9 months ago, I decided to explore my sexuality and started exploring masturbation. I learned that I can have orgasm (yes!) but I can only do it watching porn and using a strong vibrator. I use my vibrator several times a week (I have a lot of time to make up).

Sometimes I Feel Stimulation Very Deep Inside Me

Dear Betty,

Most of the time when I'm being stimulated by something I feel myself getting wet and excited in my vulva area. But sometimes I feel stimulation very deep inside me, very far away from my external clitoris.

Having watched you draw the entire clitoris, I'm wondering just where it is that I'm feeling this powerful stimulation. Some where on the pelvic floor?

Dear T,

Every Time I Orgasm During Intercourse I Cry

Hi Betty!

I am a big fan of your Youtube videos, but I still have not yet heard anyone else with my situation. I have had all kinds of orgasms from both clitoral stimulation and penetration (and both of course). However, every time I orgasm during intercourse, I cry. This does not happen when I masturbate.

How Could I be Penetrated & Still Have a Hymen?

Dear Betty,

I was raped as a child on more than one occasion. I don't know exactly how many times, because not all of the memories are clear, but they all took place within the same couple of months. I didn't tell anyone for years, so it wasn't in my medical file, and I hid it even from my family.