Hi Betty!
Can I start off by saying that you're incredible and I'm very glad to have found you and your work. So, on to my question. I'm a 22 year old lesbian and I feel that I am very in touch with my body, my needs, wants, etc. I just recently got engaged to my partner who is at present in the Army. We've spoken about all things pertaining to our individual sexualities and agree on 99% of each others wants and needs.
Dear Dr Betty,
Let me start off my saying how much your website has helped me learn more about my body and my sexuality, your help has been invaluable.
I've always been a sexual person. As a child I was always the one suggesting playing doctor, or even the more daring "I'll show you mine if you show me yours". I always figured I would start having sex relatively young, however the opportunity never really arose and when it finally did something always went wrong.
Hi Dr. Betty -
I am almost 31 yo and about 9 months ago, I decided to explore my sexuality and started exploring masturbation. I learned that I can have orgasm (yes!) but I can only do it watching porn and using a strong vibrator. I use my vibrator several times a week (I have a lot of time to make up).
Dear Betty,
Most of the time when I'm being stimulated by something I feel myself getting wet and excited in my vulva area. But sometimes I feel stimulation very deep inside me, very far away from my external clitoris.
Having watched you draw the entire clitoris, I'm wondering just where it is that I'm feeling this powerful stimulation. Some where on the pelvic floor?
Dear T,
Hi Betty!
I am a big fan of your Youtube videos, but I still have not yet heard anyone else with my situation. I have had all kinds of orgasms from both clitoral stimulation and penetration (and both of course). However, every time I orgasm during intercourse, I cry. This does not happen when I masturbate.
Dear Betty,
I was raped as a child on more than one occasion. I don't know exactly how many times, because not all of the memories are clear, but they all took place within the same couple of months. I didn't tell anyone for years, so it wasn't in my medical file, and I hid it even from my family.
Dear Betty
I'm a divorced mom and have 2 sons aged 6 and 8. I wanted to ask your advise on age appropriate sexual education material. Their dad is a very religious Jew and my kids go to a very orthodox school. Boys and girls are in separate classes from grade 0, and from a religious jewish perspective the aim is to keep boys and girls not touching until after marriage, and ejaculation outside of a vagina is seen as a BIG NO NO!
Hi,
I've been very worried lately. About two or three weeks ago, a guy stimulated " fingered me" but before any of that, I have shaved and, after he did it the next day and day after. I shaved when I felt hair down there.
Now a couple days before my period I got this little pink bump, on the outta lip of my vagina where I had shaved. it doesn't really hurt. I'm scared I might have a std. Btw I'm a virgin too so I'm so scared.
Dear A,
Hello Betty!
I have been a huge fan of your YouTube videos and website for a long time now and have asked you some questions about masturbation before but this one involves sex. I just turned 16 and have been in a relationship for 9 months now. We had sex in September, when I was 15, and this has caused some distress for me personally. I have severe anxiety and have been going to therapy for issues of being terrified of pregnancy and STD's.
