Dear Betty,

Hi Betty,

After being with my husband for a few years, and a few other men prior, I have noticed that my breasts are not sensitive during sex. My nipples are the same way. The only time I have feeling, and usually tenderness, is "that" time. I've done some research online and have found nothing. I might not have dug deep enough, but I'm curious as to why my nipples are no fun for me.

Hello Doctor Betty,

My name is H. and I live in the United States. I am of an African descent and as a young child, I was robbed of my sexual pleasures. My clitoris was cut off in the name of tradition and now that I'm older, I'm having problems with my sexuality. I have severe pains during intercourse and a very painful menstural cycle. I am very uncomfortable having sex because I don't want my boyfriend to find out. This is really interfering with my life and I was wondering whether you could help me, please. Thank you.

Hi Dr. Betty,

First off (and I know you've heard this from me a million times before): love the site, love the work you are doing, and you are absolutely my #1 sex guru forever. I turn to you again for advice on a situation I am finding particularly difficult in my life right now.

Dear Dr. Betty,

I have been enjoying anal sex for some time but I won't let my partner go from my anus to my vagina so my sex sessions tend to end after any anal (sad day). I have always been concerned that I could somehow get an infection in my vagina if I bring toys or a penis from my ass to my pussy.

I keep my booty clean with enemas but it still concerns me. I would like to be able to go back and forth. Is this a real concern or can I do what I want in this respect?

Dear C,

Dr. Betty,

Hi Betty,

I’ve been struggling with my sexual orientation for a couple of years and am wondering, if you, knowledgeable and esteemed lady :-), might have a word or two of advice, as I don’t seem to be able to get anywhere on my own.

Hello Betty,

Hi,
I've never been a big fan of oral sex, but my current boyfriend really seems to like it so I want to get better at it. Problem is, I cannot seem to "hide" my teeth well and hurt him. He is very thick, and I do not have a big mouth. Please give me as many tricks as you can!!!

Thanks!

Dear M,

Hello Betty,

I'm now 19 and am lucky enough to have been following your work, and have become somewhat of a fan girl.