How Can I Get My Boyfriend to Perform Oral Sex?

Dear Betty,

I am sixteen and currently have a boyfriend who I love very much. The other night we had very hot sex with chocolate sauce. He was penetrating me deeper than he ever had before and I was thoroughly enjoying it. He had several orgasms and lasted longer than he ever had. Despite how great it was I find myself greatly craving oral sex, because nothing compares to the pleasure I feel as a tongue glides gently over my clitoris. Yet after I brought up oral sex to him, he told me, "I love you too much for that."

Masturbation Saved Our Marriage

I am now in my early '70s. I now masturbate beside her in bed, in the shower, or at the computer with my large XXX collection.

Why Do I Pull Away From Clitoral Stimulation?

Dear Betty,

How come i can give myself back to back orgasms while masturbating but yet i pull away from my partner when he tries pleasing me. It feels awesome but before i can orgasm i pull away or push myself away from him like it feels so good i cant handle it, can you help me?

Dear S,

When we pull away from some form of clitoral stimulation it can mean

1. You have already had a small orgasm and the clitoris needs to calm down for a few moments before continuing.

I Want to Orgasm From a Penis

Dr. Betty

At the beginning sorry for my English, is not my native language. I have seen film “Petals” by Beck Peacock, and I realized I have “dancing woman” clitoris (Ina Laughing Winds identified this type in movie).

How Do I Move Past the Idea of Sex as Currency?

Dear Dr Betty,

Let me start off my saying how much your website has helped me learn more about my body and my sexuality, your help has been invaluable.

I've always been a sexual person. As a child I was always the one suggesting playing doctor, or even the more daring "I'll show you mine if you show me yours". I always figured I would start having sex relatively young, however the opportunity never really arose and when it finally did something always went wrong.