It Takes Me Two Hours Just to Get Aroused

Hi Betty,

Firstly I'd like to thank you for the important work you do in liberating women's sexuality. It's meant a lot to me over the past year since I discovered your website, and I especially learned a lot from "Orgasms for Two". It made me see my body, my sex organ and the sex act in a completely new light, making me much more comfortable in my own (naked) skin. Thank you!

The question I have for you is one I have not seen addressed on the site or in any of the books I've read. My problem is that it is very hard for me to become aroused.

I'm 16 & I Really Want a Vibrator

Dear Dr. Betty,

I'm 16 and I really want a vibrator. But you can't enter sex shops if you're a minor and I can't order online so I've been thinking of just telling my mom I masturbate and getting her to get one for me. Even if she says no, she can't stop me from masturbating. It'll just be a bit awkward between us for a while. How do I start a conversation about this and convince her to get me one?

Dear D,

Are There Any Exercises to Loosen Up for Sex?

Dear Dr. Betty,

I'm one of a few women I know who have rarely been able to experience painless sex. In all my frustration I've seen countless GPs & specialists - they've all given me the same standard (but unhelpful) advice that I need to try other positions, or I need more lubrication. At the moment, I might as well be having sex in a olympic pool of olive oil.

How Can I Get Myself Turned On Enough to Stay Wet?

Hi Betty,

I am a 17 year old girl who, until a few months ago, didn't even know what my vagina looked like. I know I've always been a very sexual person in my thoughts, but my parents never talked to me about it, and I suppressed all my feelings and thoughts my entire life.

Love to Perform Oral Sex on My Girlfriend When She's Very Musky

Dear Betty,

I love to perform oral sex on my girlfriend when she is very musky. I find it very erotic and exciting. If she has been to the gym, hasn't showered for a day, or especially the day after intercourse are the most exciting for me. The extremely musky scent and tangy taste drives me wild. She likes it too but is concerned that there might be a health risk from not washing.

Lost My Orgasm After I Gave Birth

Hi Dr. Betty,

I've been with my SO for almost 5 years. I was always used to having sex and it being fun but not getting real 'pleasure' out of it. Then we got pregnant and I was my normal nyphmo sex goddess, and I started being able to have vaginal orgasms and multiple vaginal orgasms at that.