Dear Betty and Carlin,
Thank you for reading my question. I appreciate your time and perspective and I hope that my email addresses a worthy, yet lesser-discussed topic that will interest your audience.
QUESTION
I have been asking myself: “Do I need to accept medical celibacy due to a low libido, anorgasmia and dyspareunia?” If so, do you have recommendations for accepting this lifestyle?”
BACKGROUND
Dear Dr. Betty,
First I'd like to say thank you for helping me to discover and experiment with my sexuality, your website has been a great help to me.
Dear Betty,
First let me tell u "Hi" and thank u for being around. I discovered u last year and since then Ive been hooked, though unfortunately I dont visit this place as often as Id like to. Now about me.
dear betty,
first of all, thanks so much for your website. since i discovered it i started feeling so much better and adventurous about my sex life. however, there is one question that is still unsatisfied. as some of the other women that wrote you i have problems with getting wet (enough) during sex. when i had my boyfriend we eventually started using lube and it was great.
Hi Betty,
I'm seventeen years old, have been masturbating since I had sufficient dexterity, and have never achieved an orgasm (to my knowlege). Maybe I did when I was younger, but not since I could remember. I know that you're probably thinking that I'm young and should give it more time, but I'm very well researched and have tried a lot and this particular issue is the source of a lot of anxiety and misery for me, though I've came to accept it more than I used to of late.
Hi Betty,
Firstly I'd like to thank you for the important work you do in liberating women's sexuality. It's meant a lot to me over the past year since I discovered your website, and I especially learned a lot from "Orgasms for Two". It made me see my body, my sex organ and the sex act in a completely new light, making me much more comfortable in my own (naked) skin. Thank you!
The question I have for you is one I have not seen addressed on the site or in any of the books I've read. My problem is that it is very hard for me to become aroused.
Dear Dr. Betty.
Dear Dr. Betty,
I'm 16 and I really want a vibrator. But you can't enter sex shops if you're a minor and I can't order online so I've been thinking of just telling my mom I masturbate and getting her to get one for me. Even if she says no, she can't stop me from masturbating. It'll just be a bit awkward between us for a while. How do I start a conversation about this and convince her to get me one?
Dear D,
