Hi Betty.

When I masturbate my clit gets very ticklish to the point where I just can't stand it anymore and it kills the pleasure that I am having. What can I do to get rid of that tickling feeling?

Thanks

Dear C,

Dear Betty,

I am 21 and have never been able to reach climax alone or with a partner. I can ejaculate quite easily though, but i worry that its caused from some kind of pressure build up that triggers my bladder as opposed to arousal, as when it happens I don't feel any closer to orgasm and instead just fear it actually is urine. Can this happen? Is it actually ejaculating that with lead up to orgasm?

Dear Dr. Betty,

I have a hitachi wand vibrator and am 7 months pregnant. i still enjoy using it on occasion but part of me is worried that the intense vibrations are not safe for baby. any reassurance?

Dear K,

There have been no tests or any research done on the use of an electric vibrator during pregnancy. But a friend of mine used her Hitachi throughout her pregnancy and also during labor. It really helped with pain management. In my mind, a baby inside would love the vibes and the orgasm would be fun to ride like waves that rock Baby to and fro.

Dear Dr. Betty,

After viewing your drawings of labias and seeing many pictures, I noticed that I do not have very much of an inner labia at all. I cannot see anything even resembling an inner labia when I check myself out. Is this healthy and normal?

Dear K,

Yes, I have a girlfriend who has no inner labia at all. She never posed for me unfortunately. Since most women are so concerned by any of their inner lips extending beyond the outer lips, I never did draw a vulva with none.

Dear Betty,

You've mentioned in several videos on youtube, that one should enjoy the smell of sex..and the smell of their own "situation." I agree....until it comes to me receiving oral sex. I am a clean person and always make sure to shower before hand, but when the juices start flowing, the insecurites I feel over my scent can sometimes inhibit me from cumming. I stop enjoying the moment and think, "I bet he wants to gag right now!"

Hi,

Thanks for talking with  me on the phone today. I thought of another question later in the day.

My 2-year-old son is constantly tugging on his penis when he's not wearing a diaper. My husband and I simply ignore it. (Can you believe my son's grandmother scolded him? I thought I was prude!)

Dear Dr. Betty,

Dr. Betty,

I fear that I am grossly misinformed about my body and perhaps the female anatomy in general, but alas, I think I'll ask my question anyway. At the age of 19, I've decided that it's time for me to penetrate my vagina, but for some reason, I can't get the little bugger open! I've been following your instructions--playing with myself, taking my time, exploring my nether regions--but it hasn't been working. As you can imagine, this is seriously frustrating!

Dear Dr. Betty,

I have a question about the Hitachi, multiple orgasms and side effects. My girlfriend and I are both 51 and have a great sex life. She loves sex but would like to have more orgasms. Until last weekend, she had never had a multiple orgasm. As a little background, we rarely use sex toys and she orgasms about 75% of the time, almost always from clitoral stimulation after intercourse, either from my tongue or my finger.

Hi Ladies,

LOVE LOVE LOVE your vids, just watched the latest one about the man losing his erection waiting for his wife to have her orgasm. This brought to mind my question: how do I introduce after play for him to continue with pleasuring me after he is finished, there has only been one man I've ever known willing to "keep going" after he had climaxed. Every other man I've been with (I'm not inexperienced) has considered the sex act to be OVER when they cum. How do we change this?