Dear Dr. Betty,

I am a 27 year old women that's been in a monogamous relationship for 10 years. I have 2 children and I have my tubes tied. For the past 5 years now I have had sexual urges that I can't explain. I have always enjoyed sex, for a women in today's society a little more then most. I have noticed 3 days before my Diva Week starts and about 1 week after I am as Horny as a 16 year old boy.

Hey Doc,

For a woman, when is it considered "loosing your virginity"? Is it, for lack of better words, when someone goes down on you, is it fingering or does it have to be actual penetration? Can you even draw a line with all the factors that come into play?

Thanks

Dear Dr. Betty,

I have fulfilled many of my sexual curiosities and/or fantasies. The one thing I can't seem to get over is how you got past the fact that people you knew would judge your career choice about sex and that they would see you naked. I have lost many friends by various sexual things I've done...like being naked in front of my mom, showing a picture of my penis, letting a friend give me a blowjob and then telling his wife I seduced him (lie), telling people I tied bottles to my foreskin and showed them, etc.

Dear S,

I'm 17 and I've been masturbating since a very young age. When I first started I would cross my legs tightly, and sort of rock back and forth. Sometimes I could have an orgasm in less than two minutes. The problem is, my boyfriend and I are getting serious, but I feel like sex won't be pleasurable for me, considering that my legs must be uncrossed in order to have sex.

Dear Dr. Betty,

I've been masturbating since I was a young child. It was a shameful thing to do in my household, so I would masturbate in the tub or the shower with the water so that my parents wouldn't know. When I moved away to college I started using a vibrator. I get the most amazing orgasms and multiple orgasms to boot. The only concern I have is will this prevent me from orgasm with a partner?

Dear Dr. Betty,

I have a girl friend for 5 years.  I'm the first man she totally had sex with but from the first day we had sex, after a couple of penetrations, i felt it's too big for me.  My penis is fine (kind of average,, 6 inches) as i had been through different sex experiences with other girls and it was fine and some times very tight but after i got into my relationship (I never cheated on her by the way).

Dear Dr. Betty,

My labia has some ridges and some tiny bumps, at first I thought I had genital warts but I got a pap smear and I was ok, I was still worried so i went to visit the doctor and he said it was just the folds of my skin and I was ok. He gave me antibiotics and told me to stop worrying but all i think about is these tiny glands and I get super paranoid. What should i do? is it normal to have those tiny glands?

Dear L,

Dear Dr. Betty,

I've seen porn. I've seen naked woman, etc. Every woman's pussy and anus is different and that is a definite fact. But...I have a very unusual perineum.