Dear Betty,

I am super happy to inform you that the barbell has become essential to our marriage. I am 66 and my wife 67. We have some foreplay and then she uses the magic wand and barbell combination. She usually has a rather intense orgasm after a short while. Then I glisten myself with almond oil and either masturbate in front of her with her holding my balls, or I harden myself up and come inside with the side position (you spoke of it in sex for one). What you have done is beyond imagining! I hope you are aware of your contribution.

Dear Dr. Betty,

My penis is 4.5 inches long and i want to give my wife something more. we have used several extensions but they fall off and do not work good. would it be weird if i use a strap on?

Dear J,

Just so you know, your penis is within the average range. Again this is where porn sends out the wrong message the same as it does for women.

Dear Dr. Betty,

I asked you a question a few days ago about how guys hate the fact I'm a virgin. Thank you so much for answering and I hope you don't mind me sending you another question.

I went out with a really nice guy over the weekend. In between all the fooling around, we cuddled and talked. We talked about our past dating experiences, sex, the fact I've never had it and how he is fine with that. I decided that since we were being open, I would quiz him on his sexual intelligence.

Dear Betty,

I had this wonderful exciting experience Sunday and I wanted to share it! While it was wonderful I am little frightened how people in my life would see it and view me. I am a little afraid of being judged badly.

Dear Dr. Betty,

Do any other women get stomach cramping after sex? What about a funny scent after anal sex?

Dear Betty,

I'm 22 years old. I'm a nurse and have never been heavy a day in my life. I'm 6 feet and 1 inches tall and weigh 136 pounds.

But I think my Vagina is abnormal. I have a very chubby pubic mound meaning lots of extra flesh" My boyfriend calls it my bumper'LOL I also have very thick lips that completely cover my clit. I've had multiple sexual partners and all of them had never seen a vagina like mine. Is this normal, or is there something wrong????

Please let me know.
~K

Dear K,

Dear Dr. Betty,

My boyfriend has been performing oral sex on me for quite some time. It feels great every time he does it however, it seems that right before I am about to orgasm whatever he does just tickles. We have been working on it but can't figure out a way to stop the intense tickling. I have never orgasmed before so could I actually be coming and not knowing it?

Thanks for your help,
A

Dear A,

Dear Betty and Carlin,

First, thank you so much for you work! You helped me finally accept myself as a sexual being. You're a great example of how beautiful women are when they're strong and sexually empowered. When I grow up, I want to be just like you two! ;-)

Dear Dr. Betty,

I have a question about vaginal infection and wish to get your expert answer. Thank You.

Doctor, I suspect myself having vaginal infection since January 2009... I visited doctor and she gave me a type of cream which called candid cream and some fluconazole 200mg tablet, the doctor also advised me to wash my genital area with salt water. However, It seem din recover after applied the cream and have the medicine...

Hi there

Thanks for such an amazing site. I am 22 years old and i am an incredibly sexual person...i have and always have had a huge sexual appetite. I have been masturbating since i was a little girl, earliest i remember was about 3...i would masturbate sometimes 10 or so times a day, includng in childcare etc. I would almost always manage to get caught, either by my mother or someone else ( i have a vague memory of being caught by a childcare giver)