How to Use Betty's Barbell

Betty's Barbell is both a practical vaginal exerciser and an excellent pleasure device that she has used for years in teaching women about orgasm.

My Pussy Is Too Tight!

Hi Betty,

I'm a 21 year old who has never had sex. It's not that I haven't tried. But my vagina is so tight that my boyfriend can't penetrate me. I first tried having sex when I was 17 with my boyfriend at that time. We were both inexperienced and after trying various positions, we finally gave up because I was starting to get sore.

Because of Prolapsed Uterus Orgasms Painful!

Hello Betty,

I am 57, and in the past 2 years was diagnosed with (not severe) rear pelvic wall collapse, and the beginnings of a prolapsed uterus. This discovery was made when I began to have pain during intercourse and problems with constant urinary pressure. At present I am using a vaginal estrogen cream, which has helped significantly with the pressure on my urethra, but I still have pain during intercourse. But my real concern is with my orgasms.

Is My Vaginal Canal Too Short for Sex?

Hi Betty,

Whenever I have sex and my partner thrusts, I experience pain as though he has reached the end of my vaginal canal and is maybe hitting my cervix. I'd rather sex not be inhibited by asking him to just do shallow thrusts. Do you have any idea why I am experiencing this pain? It really ruins the fun of the session for me.

Dear TW,

Any Pointers on Sex After a Hysterectomy?

Dear Dr. Betty,

I'm a 37 year old female who is recovering from a complete (including the ovaries) hysterectomy. I've not had sex yet but I'm worried about a decrease in sexual desire and the inability to get wet when I am in the throes. What can I do now on my own to insure that I can have great partner sex? Should I take vitamins? Are there exercises? Help.

A

Dear A,

Sex Hurts & Sometimes I Bleed

Dear Betty,

I am a 21 year old female who has been bleeding a little after sex. I lost my virginity at seventeen ... but it took many tries (my boyfriend had to insert one finger at a time, etc), and I bled after the first time. We stayed together for the next three years and had sex probably upwards of 5 times a week. He was forever telling me that he loved my being "tight" and I never experienced bleeding again. I recently began to date another guy and I have been bleeding about 1/2 the time we have intercourse.

Could Tilted Uterus Cause Pain During Sex?

Dear Betty,

I have recently been having trouble with pain during and after sex. I have only ever been with two men and both times I have had pain during sex and occasionally after as well. I have some medical issues in the gynecological dept. I have had surgery for endometreosis and also surgery on my uterus.

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