As far as I know, I have never had a G-spot orgasm nor have I ever ejaculated. However, I do know many of my orgasms have been deep, powerful and satisfying. I've also enjoyed those little ten minute maintenance orgasms that release tension. There is no such thing as having a bad orgasm- they all put a smile on my face. Maybe the vaginal orgasms that I managed to squeak out in my twenties would classify as G's. Some were quite accidental and non-repeatable. Others required a thirty minute erection owned by a handsome young man who promised he'd only have sex with me.

Dr. Betty,

Dear Dr. Betty,

Why is it that my sex life becomes so much more physically satisfying when I'm pregnant? My breasts actually become erogenous zones that I want my husband to play with and I enjoy really strong, powerful, intense, wonderful, screaming orgasms! (Lucky me!) This is my fourth baby, and we are done! How do I recreate these physical conditions/sensations after I deliver?

I'd really like to keep this intensity and physical enjoyment. Note: Non-pregnant sex is wonderful, but pregnant sex is just soooooo much better.

Thanks!

JD

Hi Betty,

I'm a 30 year old, self-employed female who has been in a long term (5 year) relationship with a man, two years my senior. We're both relatively healthy, attractive, and out-going. As can (probably) be expected, we have sex a lot more infrequently these days than we did in the first three years of our relationship, when we weren't running our own business, and things were still pretty new.

Dear Betty,

Since I was about seven or eight years old, I have masturbated with the thought of the naked women I saw on American Pie 3 or the thought of my crush. This continued and continued until now, which I am 17 years old. I have asked myself about my sexual orientation and I have literally freaked out about not wanting to be gay, even though, there have been no signs whatsoever throughout my childhood.

After I read the article below by Anne Koedt in 1970, I was thrilled and made a cold call hoping to meet and discuss how we could collaborate. Although Anne was suspicious of me over the phone, once she was sure of my feminist credentials, she set up an appointment. During our visit, she explained that after receiving so much hate mail and a death threat as a result of her article, she was going to disappear. She had just begun a new relationship with a man she loved and didn't want to jeopardize their future with feminist politics.

I just ran over to Fifth Avenue to see if I could catch my old, old friend Gretchen who helped me type up the first orders that came in from Ms. Magazine requesting my booklet, Liberating Masturbation. She has been the grand martial for Gay Pride many years now. Although I missed her again, I did catch the NYPD queer cops marching behind the NYPD Marching Band. Wow! That took guts, NYC finest and gay?

Dearest darling Dr. Betty~

Dear Betty,

I am a 21 year old female who has been bleeding a little after sex. I lost my virginity at seventeen ... but it took many tries (my boyfriend had to insert one finger at a time, etc), and I bled after the first time. We stayed together for the next three years and had sex probably upwards of 5 times a week. He was forever telling me that he loved my being "tight" and I never experienced bleeding again. I recently began to date another guy and I have been bleeding about 1/2 the time we have intercourse.

Dear Betty,

My dear husband and I were having some fun this afternoon. My question is that when he orgasmed, I was working my PC muscles at the same time which caused him to start laughing uncontrollably. He said it was because the sensation was very intense. He was laughing so hard it made me laugh too. It was a fun experience but one I've never had before. I would like to have a laughing orgasm, seems like it would be a double release. It was fun and a little weird to watch my husband though. Have you ever experienced anything like this?

Thanks!

Dear L,