You must ask her what she wants and put that before your own needs.

It is said that 4.5 to 5 inches is average.

How can a person "begin" sexually without a loving and trusting relationship?

It slows down our brain waves so we can more readily access our bodily senses.

I encourage genital massage along with masturbation for both women and men.

At best this form of vaginal stimulation would be what I call "indirect clitoral stimulation.

Your vaginal discharge/infection is not the result of you current or past masturbation.

A person can be straight and have gay fantasies or the other way around.

Our arousal patterns change as we mature. If not, it's a sign we are stuck in a rut and it's time for a change.

I've never heard of this being the result of too much sex!