Can I See My Hymen In a Mirror?

While I'm glad you are curious and interested in your lovely sex organ, rest assured that you no longer have a hymen after years of sexual intercourse.

How Do I Have Good Sex After Being Raped?

Dr Betty, 

I actually was a virgin at the time of my rape and it was my first sexual experience ever. Anyway I have a new relationship and he is experienced but we have not gotten sexually intimate yet. He wants to make sure I am ready and wanting to do this, he is willing to wait. 

My question is, what do I need to expect when I do become intimate with him? Will it be as difficult as if I hadn't had sex at all or what should I do to make it easier for me my first real time? How can he make things easier for me as well?