All women can orgasm with the right kind of clitoral stimulation. Practice these steps and enjoy multiple orgasms.
How you masturbate is how you have partner sex. This article describes the types of orgasm and how you can enhance your pleasure alone and with a partner.
It's my belief that If you have masturbated to orgasm you are no longer a virgin!
His fingering was enough to cause little vaginal tears as he had no idea what he was doing.
We need to understand that masturbation is having sex.
Most important is to enjoy what feels good and communicate when something is uncomfortable.
I recommend having safe sex with a variety of girls to learn what you are looking for.
Since you are orgasmic with masturbation and have self penetrated your vagina, "virgin" no longer applies.
Just have your birth control in place then feel free to use him for your first experiment with "going all the way."
As for veggie dildos, a zucchini or carrot can be carved down to size.