I am 67, my wife is 65, and we have been married 45 years.

Although we have great sex, it isn't often enough for me, so I masturbate frequently. My wife and I both love my cock and balls and think they are good-looking. I usually (but not always) keep them shaved, with the pubic hair above trimmed. My cock is probably of average length and slightly greater than average thickness. Flaccid it measures three-and-a-half inches long, fully erect seven-and-a-half inches. It is five-and-a-half inches around.

I love my vulva! I think she is beautiful! As I’ve gotten older, my inner lips do extend out beyond my outer lips more than they used to. Additionally, they are a bit more asymmetrical than they used to be. This is, in part, because one of them tore a bit as I gave birth to my son (he came out face up rather than face down which stretched things a bit differently than usual). Anyhow, I view that as my maternal badge of honor.

Hi Betty

I sent you one photo last week mentioning my luv of masturbation using a natural substance i.e. sperm i would luv to know what your thoughts are ?

I have enclosed 2 more pics of my vulva plus lubricant. My partner and i enjoy mutual masturbation with him ejaculating either in or on the lips of my vagina. We find some lubricants either sticky or they tend to try to quickly. Please ad these 2 pics to the one submitted last week as both my partner and myself enjoy the thought somebody else is enjoying our pleasures.

Great site
Anne

This picture was taken when my Viagra tablets had taken effect. Over the past years I have been treated for BPH, and I have taken many medication. Unfortunately the side effects was a loss of sexual function. I could get an erection but it would go away in a very short time. The problem was I could not stay hard to satisfy my wife. I finally got up the nerve to ask the doctor for a prescription for Viarga.

Hi Betty

Since joining your site and looking at those lovely cocks and pussy's both my partner ( s ) and myself have not left each other alone.

I forgot to mention in previous essays that we often share our luv life with a 3rd person, a male, in fact these pics were taken just after we had a 3 some session, hence the amount of " lubricant " spread around!

When I was growing up my mother taught me to refer to my vagina as my "cookie." As in, "make sure to wipe both your cookie and your tushie after going to the bathroom." I started sex play with my friends at 6 and had my first orgasm at 12 from masturbating, and then at 16 came for the first time with another person when my friend Paul went down on me for the first time...but all that time I could never find a word I liked for what I had down there.

hi Betty,

Growing up as a child I was taught that the penis should be hidden at all times, so I grew a complex over that.

To make matters worse my pubic hair is red and my penis is shaped like a banana when hard. About a year ago I was having a conversation with a couple of ladies that I work with and genitals got brought up. I told them about my issues when I grew up and they asked me if they could see. I was reluctant to show them but I did do it anyways, much to my surprise I got compliments on the size and the trim of the pubic hair.

Dr. Betty,

Thank You for doing what you do. I have read both of your books. I’m a 45 year old divorced male. I have been jacking off since my early teens. At first I’d hide out in the bathroom like most teen aged boys did. Through out my teens and twenties I would jerk off as quickly as I could. Later on in my thirties l taught my self to slow down and enjoyed it a lot more.  After reading your books it was like rediscovering masturbation for the first time. Also, I’ve turned on a couple past girl friends to it as well.

Men love to take pride in their cock, and I am no different. I love my cock: it’s long, thick, and natural (7.5 x 6.5). But I also feel some silliness in taking pride in its size, as that is a gift of genetics. In truth, I know my cock is not really different in physical shape or size than every other penis, if you give or take an inch or two. So let me try to add some character it, supplementing a physical description with its personality.

English single-sex private schools, paradoxically known as Public Schools because in the 14th century they were supposedly open to anyone whose parents had the money rather than just members of the aristocracy or clergy, are strange places. Supposedly refined and middle-class they could be brutal places once the veneer of privilege had been lifted. In the 1960s they were arenas of sexual repression and guilt too.