Use your relaxed tongue on his arm to show him what would feel better.

BEST solution: Do your own clitoris during sex with a partner.

To deal with more intensity, make sounds that meet what you feel, breathe deeply and thrust into the sensation instead of pulling back.

You can retrain your clitoris to orgasm with less intense stimulation OR you can bring your vibe to partner sex.

You have to awaken your clitoris - use lubricant - touch her softly and often.

Every clitoris has 8,000 nerve endings. Size doesn't matter at all.

Actually you have sensitized your clitoris by stimulating it on a regular basis.

All women have a clitoris. Time to get out a mirror/a good light and look at your vulva.

As we age, our orgasms change. Be flexible...keep masturbating...and find a sex coach

You can upgrade your masturbation technique to orgasm from a lighter touch/stimulation.