After hearing countless sex histories from girls and women over the past four decades, I believe sexual repression begins the moment a parent or caregiver punishes a child’s natural curiosity for touching their own sex organs.
Dear Dr. Betty,
I'm from Germany, I stumpled upon Your webpage some time ago and I liked it very much especially for my further sexual education and understanding of the sexuality of women. Finally I decided to write you some of my questions in hope of Your answer (though You probably have questions/problems more dire to attend to) - well here it is.
Hi Dr. Betty,
Hello!
I'm a twenty-year-old woman, and a big fan of yours. My first sexual partner and I drew a lot of inspiration from your videos and articles last year, and I must say you helped us have a delightful and pleasurable time as we discovered our sexualities together.
My question is about fingering myself! I just love it when partners finger me, using two in an up-and-down motion to really stimulate the inner wall of my clitoris. When I try to do that myself, my fingers get tired after just a few 'thrusts'! Is there a particular technique I should be trying?
Dear Betty,
I'm not an english native speaker so please excuse me if my english is not the most elegant.
Dear Betty,
First of all, thanks for the amazing resources you have here! For the first time since I started trying to understand my own orgasms–it's been about four years!–I found validation for my own experiences. As it turns out, I've been giving myself pressure orgasms since I was young, and I, like others who have submitted questions, was worried that I had "ruined" my clitoris. After reading your techniques and tips I feel confident that I can wean myself off the pressure orgasm and learn some new tricks, and hopefully even orgasm with a partner.
Dear Dr. Betty,
Hey Betty,
So I am about to get married and have been working with a specialist and a physical therapist. As I have been working to relax my pelvic floor enough to be able to have intercourse and working on a skin condition that caused pain around the clitoris and vulva.
Hello Betty, I am so very happy to have found your site a few years ago. I have learned a lot!
What is the best way to go about 'fixing' my PC muscle? I have been with the same partner for nearly 15 years and we have had three kids. I am 33, my youngest is six. I have never done anything to help myself along the way, now I'm in panic mode.
