Dear Dr. Betty,

I have a question about the Hitachi, multiple orgasms and side effects. My girlfriend and I are both 51 and have a great sex life. She loves sex but would like to have more orgasms. Until last weekend, she had never had a multiple orgasm. As a little background, we rarely use sex toys and she orgasms about 75% of the time, almost always from clitoral stimulation after intercourse, either from my tongue or my finger.

Hi Ladies,

LOVE LOVE LOVE your vids, just watched the latest one about the man losing his erection waiting for his wife to have her orgasm. This brought to mind my question: how do I introduce after play for him to continue with pleasuring me after he is finished, there has only been one man I've ever known willing to "keep going" after he had climaxed. Every other man I've been with (I'm not inexperienced) has considered the sex act to be OVER when they cum. How do we change this?

Dear Dr. Betty,

My problem is something on which I've done a lot of internet research, and I've yet to find a satisfying answer to my problem. I began attempting masturbation (with my fingers) at the age of 13, and had no orgasms. It felt nice, but I never climaxed. Manipulation of the clitoris was not satisfying to completion, nor was vaginal fingering. When I was 18, I bought a vibrator, but it did not make me come, the incessant buzzing only made me numb. Reluctant to lose my virginity to a fake penis, I waited until I was 23, got fed up, and bought a dong.

Dear Betty,

I am super happy to inform you that the barbell has become essential to our marriage. I am 66 and my wife 67. We have some foreplay and then she uses the magic wand and barbell combination. She usually has a rather intense orgasm after a short while. Then I glisten myself with almond oil and either masturbate in front of her with her holding my balls, or I harden myself up and come inside with the side position (you spoke of it in sex for one). What you have done is beyond imagining! I hope you are aware of your contribution.

Dear Dr. Betty,

I asked you a question a few days ago about how guys hate the fact I'm a virgin. Thank you so much for answering and I hope you don't mind me sending you another question.

I went out with a really nice guy over the weekend. In between all the fooling around, we cuddled and talked. We talked about our past dating experiences, sex, the fact I've never had it and how he is fine with that. I decided that since we were being open, I would quiz him on his sexual intelligence.

Dr. Betty,

Dear Betty,

I'm a 22-year-old female in a healthy relationship. I lost my virginity at the age of 18, but I had been achieving clitoral orgasms since the age of 14 on my own. Since having a few different partners, I am unsure whether I have ever had a real vaginal orgasm.

I have never really got much out of sex in the past, but with my current boyfriend everything is great as he always ensures I am fully aroused before sex and makes sure that if he (on the rare occasion) comes first, that I still get mine.

Hi, Betty.

I would first like to say that I LOVE your website. I'm 16 and have always had a lot of sexual curiosity and I love when people, like yourself can speak freely about a topic that has, unfortunately been so down played and criticized by our society. Thank you and Carlin for all you do.

Dear Betty,

Hello Betty,

I am going to cut the admiring part short but just know that you are inspiring me not only in sexual matters but in 'liberating myself from all things bringing me down and enjoying selfloving'.