Awakening the Clitoris

We didn't know it at the time but this would be our last workshop together. Two months later nyc would lock down and I would never physically be in Betty's presence again.
This was our last video project together. Betty took that scarf off my neck and it looks perfect on her.
It was 8am...the water was freezing...the picture was worth it.
Julia snapped this picture of Betty, wand in hand, after erotic recess at Menla. One of my favorites.
60 Bodysex women came to Menla to celebrate Betty's 90th. We had just received one of Betty's framed drawings from a friend's estate and brought it with us to grace the stage.
We joined a lawsuit challenging the 2257 regulations limiting access to images of genitals in our genital art gallery. Both Betty and I testified....we won.
In 2012, we flew around the country picking up awards. The SSSS Masters and Johnson Lifetime Achievement award was the most prestigious. Thank you, Eli Coleman.
Betty invited me to accompany her to Copenhagen to run a "workshop" for 13 graduating sexologists. I didn't know what to expect but it completely changed the trajectory of my life. We headed to the airport at 6am and were greeted by several women from the circle, wands in hand.